As we’re now edging toward spring

As we’re now edging toward spring, my mind is racing with thoughts of warmer weather, my garden waking up after the winter chill, and new beginnings of all kinds. Is there a promotion that you've been working hard to achieve, or a special someone you've been trying to connect with, or even some issue with a friend or family member you've been struggling to find the right words to express? If you've been putting off thinking about these things, or keep hoping for some “miracle” to set them right, I'd urge you to take this opportunity to clear your head of all distractions and set your mind to coming up with an action plan to get them going.

So, let's start by focusing on the things you want to achieve. If you have a few things on your wish list, write them all down and prioritize them, being realistic about the ones you’re ready to take on. I would limit that to no more than two, so that you can direct your energy and resources, and set yourself up to succeed.

Next, you need a realistic plan to achieve your goals. Keep a deadline (whether set or projected) in mind, so that you can avoid the “evils of procrastination.” Taking a reasonable amount of time to think about these goals is fine but, be warned, too much inaction won't give you the incentive to push forward. If you've been working hard to get noticed for that big promotion, make sure that you've thought out your next step toward achieving that. Maybe follow-up with your boss on the results of your recent efforts, taking the opportunity to promote yourself and the asset that you are to the company. If there's an issue with a friend or family member that's keeping you both at arm's length, maybe write them a well-thought-out letter, putting all your feelings in black and white so communication is no longer an issue.

The world is full of opportunities, but only those who actually put forth the effort to take advantage of them will even achieve success. “Don't dream it, be it,” is a lyric from?The Rocky Horror Picture Show, and it's always in my mind when I'm on the verge of talking myself out of action or giving up. Stay strong, my friend, and, most of all, stay focused. Your heart's desires need not remain just desires. I want you to be able to achieve all the goals you've set yourself. You're destined for success, but only YOU can make it a reality.