A Wellspring of Leadership When Nobody is Coming
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What tracks are you leaving?
I think this is the most important question any of us can ask in these crazy times. It's a topic I dive into deeply in my new book, Nobody is Coming to Save You. But, I'd like to get into this before the book even comes out.
What tracks are you leaving? It's a question my Dad, Rex Mann, has been asking himself and me for decades. My Dad is a woodsman. He grew up in the Smoky Mountains of North Carolina and then went on to spend 42 years in the U.S. Forest Service. He fought big wildland fires all over the country. He mentored hundreds of fire fighters. He raised kids and grandkids. He led his community. Through all of it, he focused on leaving his tracks.
He used to take my brother, Travis, and me into the woods for character building talks
Now, as my dad fights cancer for the third time in a life and death struggle, his tracks are at the epicenter of everything he does and talks about. He wasn't talking about actual tracks in those walks in the woods, he was talking about those indelible impressions that each of us can leave in the earth. They are actions that don't necessarily serve the people around us right now, but those who follow us. Tracks are a metaphor for our legacy.
And as meaning-assigning creatures, it makes a lot of sense. We seek and assign meaning to everything we do.
At a time when the disengagement scores of employees
Try this: go someplace quiet and take a pen and paper. Imagine it's your last day on earth. Who would you want holding your hand and sitting at your side? Close your eyes. Breathe. Picture their face. Breathe. Hear their voice. Now, imagine this special person who was there with you in your final moments is having coffee with someone 15 years after you've passed on. That new person didn't know you and is asking about you. The person who was with you at the end of your life describes the tracks you left behind. What would you have them say? Maybe it's about the capacity you built in your movement or organization that lasted beyond your time. Maybe it's the way your kids navigate the world based on what you gifted them. Or maybe it's all the incredible relationships you built that still flourish.
Regardless, move the pen and let those answers spill onto the page. Don't think. Just write for about 10 minutes. You may get emotional. That's okay. Just feel your feet on the ground. Take a big breath and let go. The emotion will pass in about 45 seconds. It's necessary in some cases. Then, take a break and walk away from it. Go back and look at those tracks. Share them, if you can, with that special person. Work them into the things you talk about with your vision. Tell people about your tracks, about what you're building. Ask them to help you leave those tracks.
Put the tracks somewhere that they "stare at you" all the time. It helps you stay focused on what matters. I keep mine in my bedroom closet and I look at them every morning.
Consider updating your tracks quarterly. Each time do the same process. Go somewhere quiet and select a different person to hold your hand in your final moments and then let them have that conversation with another person 15 years after you've gone. You'll start to develop a really cool, holistic and 360-degree view of the tracks you were born to leave.
Tracks. They are indeed the wellspring of leadership. We are hungry for leaders who do this. Nobody is coming to save us. The good news is that next chapter of your life - the tracks you'll leave - has yet to be written.
Give it a shot. Leave your tracks. And lead us into better days.
I'll see you on the Rooftop.
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Gold Star Mom, Keynote Speaker, Co-Author of the anthology Wounds to Wisdom, Program Manager/Lead Story Coach/Storyteller and Liaison for Families of the Fallen with The Heroes Journey, Last Out, & Task Force Pineapple.
8 个月Thank you Scott for sharing this! I remember the first time I heard you suggest this and the tracks I wrote down that day are still in my line of vision. I will be honest and admit I’m uncomfortable sharing them out loud with the person I picture at my bedside at the end of my life because I know I have a loooong way to go with those tracks! But just having them written down goes a loooong way in leaving them! ??
Historian and Bibliographer of the Stalinist Holodomor Genocide of 1932-33.
8 个月How true that the best thing to say of John/Jane Everyman was that he/she was a good man/woman, and that they are missed. We look to meet again in heaven.
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8 个月Scott, this is such a heartfelt reflection on the legacy we leave behind. Your story about your father's wisdom and the metaphor of tracks is so inspiring.?The exercise of visualizing our final moments and the stories others will tell about us is a perfect way to align our actions with our true values.?