Welcome to the "Ex-List"!
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As I drove back from a client meeting yesterday – yes, a real, physical client meeting! - I found an old playlist on Spotify called "The Ex-List" which I’d made in 2016. Now logic would suggest that the past should stay in the past – but I was intrigued to see what I’d added to the list and what would come up.
The playlist contained songs that defined my key relationships:
? Always – Bon Jovi (my first kiss on the French Exchange)
? In my life – The Beatles (the Psycho)
? World of our Own - Westlife (my uni boyfriend)
? Chasing Cars – Snow Patrol (the Doctor)
? When you're gone – Avril Lavigne (the Farmer)
? Drive – Incubus (the Aussie)
? Stay – Sugarland (Mr. X)
The list goes on (as did my litany of failed relationships and questionable music choice!).
But, as I listened back through the playlist of my love life - ???? ?????? ?????????????? ???? ?????? ?????? ???????? ?????????????? ?????? ?????????????????? ?????????????? ?????? ?????????????? ???? ???? ?????????? ?? ???? ??????????. To a relationship where I am an equal. Loved and respected for who I am. No longer trying to transform myself to fit in and be someone I’m not.
The point of telling you this is that I know that a lot of you are struggling with difficult relationships at the moment. But just know that the wrong relationships have a purpose. They shape us. They make us look inwards. They teach us to recognize when the right relationship arrives.
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