Weekly Musings #5 Big visions and baby steps
Donnie SC Lygonis
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This week I'm summarizing a lot of thoughts and things that have happened the past month or so, all having to do with the magic of consistency, persistence and perseverance, the power of slowly chipping away at a big block of granite until nothing but gravel remains.
I think it started with me complementing Peter Sandberg for his paintings and his ability, (check out the thread of comments to my post on hobbies for that) to which he simply answered: - Yes, I took up painting again as a hobby, but I almost quit before starting again since I realized how much time it would take for me to get good enough again. And that's when his daughter Alexandra told him ”One never should be afraid of doing things that will take a long time because time will pass anyway!” which of course changed his whole mindset of what he was about to do. He ended by saying "My only talent is that I'm good at practice and training." which I felt was an understatement, but looking at it again, it means everything.
”One never should be afraid of doing things that will take a long time because time will pass anyway!” Alexandra Sandberg
Sometimes talent can even be a curse, not a blessing, in disguise. If you have it too easy, you might not feel that you need to practice, study or train. Your talent can take you far, but not as far as the ones that had to work for it, the ones that had to put in the hours to acquire the skills needed to perform.
So don't worry if you don't have talent.
Remember - you can become better at anything.
Anything.
Starting from where you are today you can improve and change.
As long as you stick to it, and trust the process, as I wrote in #Daily Post 405.
Trust the process and stick to the plan. You will improve.
But only if you are prepared to chip away, day after day, one small piece at a time. Nothing comes for free, and you won't get there tomorrow.
You might never get there, but finding the beauty in the chipping away is part of it. If you set yourself to achieve something, then the improvements along the way will be pleasurable as well.
And that came up in Episode 50 of my Innovation Fika with Frida & Kim the other week, (Hey, Episode 50!) we were talking about Branding with a Purpose and towards the end we had a great comment from Daniel Fehrnstr?m about using the mentioned branding tools for personal branding as well, something both Frida and Kim agreed on, with Kim saying: "Think about what you want to achieve, what do you want to do and achieve, every day when you wake up, and what is your long term goal, it might be 50 years, and it might not even be reachable, but envision what you are aiming for."
"Think about what you want to achieve, what's your vision, and mission, what do you want to do and achieve every day when you wake up? And what is your long term goal? It might be 50 years, and it might not even be reachable, but envision what are you are aiming for" Kim Westerlund
For me, the chipping away has had a lot to do with exercise. In 2018 I did a 365 day runstreak, meaning that I ran every day for 365 days in a row, no matter what or where. That year saw a number of crazy episodes with me trying to find time and place to run, not always the easiest feat since it was a very travel intensive year as well. (I think I'll write a separate article about that year, too many good stories from that year to leave untold ??)
Funny thing is that I didn't get better at running, but I did get better at writing! Very early on during the runstreak I started posting stupid jokes about running on Instagram, which became a thing for me, that I had to come up with a lame joke every day, day in and day out, and oh yes, run as well, but that was secondary. It was the writing that became central, finally I was writing every day!
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That of course turned into my daily posts here on LinkedIn, and still I find myself writing almost every day, even though I might not post every day.
Then just the other week I checked my Nordic Wellness app for the first time in ages. When I got my NW membership back in 2015 I was a regular member, so I collected points, or Triggz as they call them, getting a milkshake or a powerbar for every 1000 or so points (You get 100 points for every check-in or attended class.) and then bigger gifts for higher points achieved, like bag for 50 000 points etc. But then in 2017 I started giving classes as an instructor (again, after having quit being an instructor in 2014) which of course meant that my points didn't count for anything anymore. So I stopped counting and stopped checking the app, but kept on training.
Then the other week I opened the app again for the first time in I don't know how long, and could hardly believe my eyes!
WT...F! 200 000 points! That's 2000 check-ins. And even counting summer campaigns when you get double points for check-ins, that's still a heck of a lot of check-ins!
I'm only mentioning this because it surprised me to see how consistent I have been the past seven-eight years. Five days a week, almost every week. And the interesting thing is that I don't beat myself up if I miss a day or even a week, since I know that over the coming year or three years I'll get my training in anyway.
Consistency allows for exceptions.
And that same thing came up in all of the interviews with the amazing, unbelievable Olympic Gold medalist and world record holder Nils van der Poel. He is as much a deep thinker and philosopher as he is athlete. He trains harder than anyone else, five days a week, and then he allows himself two days off with friends and family, but as he states in his Training Manifesto "How to skate a 10k":
"During my last two seasons I regularly skated 240 laps of 30,0 weekly, alone and with lane change. I believe that I am the only skater ever to be able to do that continuously. I was not born this way, I worked for it."
And further down in the same manifesto:
"The main idea of my training program was that you will become good at whatever it is that you train." Nils van der Poel
Photo: The Yomiuri Shimbun via AP Images
So yes, you can become better at anything, if you set your mind to it.
Personally, today, I am aiming for my Daily Post #1000 daily posts and the 100th Episode of my Innovation Fika, but I also intend to enjoy every single post, every single episode and every single step on the way getting there.
What's your vision, or mission? What do you see yourself achieving in 1, 3, 10 or more years?
Create your vision, make it worthwhile, and then move towards it, day by day, one baby step at a time.
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2 年Great musings Donnie SC Lygonis! The title "Big visions and baby steps" is absolutely wonderful ?? There is a notion out there that the only things that matter are the BIG things. But I couldn't agree less. The only reason the big things (dreams, goals, records, change, PEACE) happen is because of all the millions and millions of baby steps along the way. No baby step = No big thing = No step closer to your vision. The only important thing to remember is to make sure that those baby steps are taken in the same direction. ??
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2 年And thank you for mentioning our talk and the “personal branding table”! ??????
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2 年This is such an important message and topic, also when it comes to helping kids and young people to find this kind of motivation, determination and self confidence. I volounteer as a contact person and moderator in a community for teachers and parents to gifted children, and I know how many gifted children (almost every gifted child in some way or areas) struggle with a lack of patience and confidence, and experience a lot of anxiety whenever success doesn’t come easily. It’s often because they didn’t/don’t get enough education or challenges on their level, and therefore get very little experience of having to think again, try, fail and ask others for help. It doesn’t take long before they quit trying. Mensa and thousands of parents are working hard every day to change that, and make the Swedish school system more flexible and aware of the importance for every child to achieve this vital confidence in learning, and not in knowing. ??
Oh what an honour to be mentioned and an inspiration to a legend like you! Great insights and thank you for always sharing ??
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2 年This musing fits my experience of training for the Canada Ski Marathon (160 km skied over the Gatineau mountains in two days). Initially this seemed impossible with my legs turning to lead after 40km…but with a whole year of regular training I managed the stamina needed to succeed and become a “Coureur de Bois”. This experience was then repeated for other ski marathons like the Vasaloppet. In all cases it has been encouraging to share the training and races with friends…building a ‘we can do this’ attitude.