?? Weekly Mind Sweep #80 | Mind Your Business | Permission

July 2023

Week 79:?Curated Conversation; Permission

*Week 80:?Mind Your Business; Permission

Week 81:?Manage Your Mind; Permission

Week 82:?What’s On My Mind; Permission

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Last week during online events and social media communities, I asked entrepreneurs, "What is a story you tell yourself in your business that you'd benefit from letting go?"

• I'm charging too much
• I can't be structured
• It's hard to find great speaking opportunities
• I don't have what it takes
• There is a piece of my business that I feel like I can't let go of because of the money
• The noise about what to do to be successful in business
• I'm not good enough
• I'm not giving enough value
• I'm an introvert, so I'm bad at marketing my business
• I'm not a great businesswoman

First, thank you to the beautiful community I surround myself with for being vulnerable enough to share these thoughts. Some of them were painful to hear, some I've listened to people around me say, and others I've told myself.

So many entrepreneurs out there feel just like you.

Let’s sweep the brain…

We've been telling ourselves the same story so much that we believe it's true. When we pause to consider how far we've come and reflect on our progress, we see we have what it takes. We are good enough and bring value to the world.?

We still need to charge more. Let's work on that together.

There is truth that, as business owners:

• We need to be conscious of what the market can bare.
• There is value in researching other businesses providing a product or service similar to yours.
• It's also a fact that you can't force a market to want something you love.

Whether purchasing products for resale or providing a service to your customers, your cost has increased over the past three years. When was the last time you reviewed your business costs, your own cost of living, or increased the amount of money you put into your retirement savings??

All of these factors in business matter, but it all starts with you.

When I meet with entrepreneurs, they are often successful but cannot see, hear or believe it. You listen to messages like these in your head so often that your response to them has become automatic. [1*]

What if you decided to put them down? [2*] What if you paused when you heard it, took a deep breath, and decided that your perspective is as important or even more than anyone else??

You have everything you need.

It takes courage and determination to dislodge ingrained messages and the feelings they trigger. The feelings from the stories you tell yourself are valid. The stories you hear 24/7 inside of your head are not. For today, I invite you to begin the practice of the pause. It will take repetition to unravel and undo years of stories you've been telling yourself.?

You are intelligent and capable of making your own decisions.

You must wake up each day and practice choosing yourself, stop conforming to your self-imposed rules, stop asking, and start taking action.

You do not have to ask for permission.

You can choose to stop believing that you are selfish, not worthy, or that you are "bad" at business. Your efforts matter.

Let's take a moment to flip the script on some of the statements shared.

• I'm charging too much, or I've researched the market, my competitors, and the math of the money I need to live the life I want, and this is my fee.
• I can't be structured, or I've struggled to stay consistent with the tool options available, and I will design a process that works for me.
• It's hard to find great speaking opportunities, or I find the options out there overwhelming and lack return on investment, so I will focus my efforts in one spot for a dedicated amount of time and keep track of the feedback I receive.
• I'm an introvert, so I'm bad at marketing my business, or I'm not fond of the type of marketing that I see other companies use and would rather show up more authentically in a way that I feel comfortable with.
• I'm not a great businesswoman, or I'm great with what I bring to the world, but I could use support with tasks that I don't enjoy or have the experience to do for myself.

I'm not suggesting toxic positivity here. I'm suggesting that you?

• Reflect on the story you tell yourself to facts from your actions.
• Ask a friend or colleague to reflect on what they hear and see from your efforts.?
• Practice believing the compliments your receive. They feel uncomfortable. Sit in that.
• You may perceive yourself differently than others. Be open to different perspectives.

Here is a 1% micro-step you can choose to start today to begin shifting the narrative in your mind. When you hear the message from your brain and the shift in your body that something is uncomfortable, pause, breathe, and say, "Is that true? Or is that the story I'm telling myself? Be honest with yourself.

Simple. Not easy.?

But that's how we roll around here at Chickbook Creative. Consciousness is a full-time job in life and business.

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This has become a new space for my digressions.

[*1 ] We'll talk more about automatic thoughts next week in Manage Your Mind

[*2 ] The stories don't go away. It is what our brains are best at. But you can control how loud they are and what you do with them

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What I’m reading:

dopamine nation

Dr Anna Lembke

In Dopamine Nation, Dr. Anna Lembke, psychiatrist and author, explores the exciting new scientific discoveries that explain why the relentless pursuit of pleasure leads to pain . . . and what to do about it. Condensing complex neuroscience into easy-to-understand metaphors, Lembke illustrates how finding contentment and connectedness means keeping dopamine in check. The lived experiences of her patients are the gripping fabric of her narrative. Their riveting stories of suffering and redemption give us all hope for managing our consumption and transforming our lives. In essence, Dopamine Nation shows that the secret to finding balance is combining the science of desire with the wisdom of recovery.

What I’m listening to:

The Sassy Strategist Podcast

Stop Waiting for Change and Start Creating It Yourself with Kim Dawson

Have you been feeling stuck, unmotivated, or simply “meh” about your business lately? Does it feel like you’re in a holding pattern waiting for something to change? Are you telling yourself that eventually things will start to happen for you, and at that point you’ll finally be ready to move forward?

Then don’t miss this episode of The Sassy Strategist podcast. Host Kim Dawson shares a personal story of how she found inspiration where she least expected it, and how it made her realize that waiting for change just keeps you stuck where you are.

She asks the tough questions to help you realize that the only thing standing in the way of you getting what you want is waiting for it. Kim also shares specific strategies you can use to go from feeling uninspired to focused and ready for action.

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Collaboration

You have big ideas, great ideas! But they keep you up at night and require you to continuously purchase new notebooks and pads of Post-Its because you don’t know how to take them from idea to REAL life.

You struggle to translate it into tangible things that make you money and grow your business forward.

Enter MindSweep Mapping (not to be confused with plain old Mind Mapping); Jamie

Chapman’s Chickbook Creative signature offering that helps you go from inspiration to

ACTION on your half-formed thoughts and insomnia-inducing ideas.

MindSweep Mapping is one part coaching and one part mind mapping and will give you clear, concise action steps to getting to where you want to go.

This is not your average mind-mapping session!

Join us Friday, July 21st at noon for a MindSweep Mapping event with Jamie Chapman

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Oh, Hi! I’m Jamie Chapman

I’m a Small Business Consultant who recognizes you might do things a little bit different, and I’m here for it. I help support small businesses in a wide variety of industries, and have a special place in my heart for neurodiverse entrepreneurs and ADHD business owners.?

If you find that you’re often dancing to the beat of a pen tapping against your desk instead of your own drum, I see you and get you. And I want you to keep on dancing.?

I value getting to know the whole person as a business owner and taking a holistic, human view of their needs. I meet you where you’re at and support you in getting to where you want to go.?

I love watching small business owners thrive and feel proud of what they’re building.?

Founder and Owner of Chickbook Creative, I’ve gained years of career experience in systems, processes, accountability, leadership, and project management. I bring a multi-faceted approach to problem-solving and extensive knowledge of executive functioning, habit formation and the neurodiverse and ADHD entrepreneur’s mind.??

I see and understand the ADHD entrepreneur brain at work, and I'm passionate about supporting neurodivergent business owners in a way that lets them shine their light and bring their gifts to the world for all to see (and pay them for!).?

Time with me; Priceless