We live in the same world but not at same frequency

It is very complex question but the simple answer is may be that you are in the wrong place, you don't belong there. Every one of us wants to be loved and liked. We need someone or something to tell us we belong in this group,in this place with this people. Before we speak of that tell me as to how comfortable are you in your own skin, do you like yourself ? and do you love yourself ? also how social you are ? and do you depend on others for keeping yourself occupied ? and do you make decisions for yourself or let others make decisions for you even though you are not happy with it. or do you voice your opinions or go around without ever speaking what you feel like? and are you with people who you feel are much better than you ? or are you a mere push over ? and finally do you feel that people around you don't understand you? Try answering these questions yourself and see where you stand.

First of all if you don't like or love yourself then you will never be happy wherever you are. Being comfortable in your own skin is the most important thing there is. If you yourself don't have a good impression on yourself how will you project that outwards. Because the world you reside in, is a creation of your own making. Most people live in their own minds, as well as the external world they have cultivated. You will realize once you stop separating yourself from others, that we are all one.

And may be that you are fine the way you are. Comparing yourself with others is not. Instead of focusing on the differences, seek out similarities, because the more you perceive yourself, as not like everyone else, you are closing yourself off to life's experiences. The way you "feel" can be changed. It's just a matter of choosing too. Surround yourself in the joys, you have created. Detect the subtleties in your environment that make you unhappy, limit the exposure of certain situations that raise your stress alarm.

Of course, don't worry much about the perceptions of others. We are all on our own journey, and there is no right, or wrong way to walk. No perfect world that someone else is living. As long as you are happy, being you, then that is all that matters. You're in the world you perceive, and I am in the world I perceive. We're going to see things differently, you and I, by virtue of the context of our existence: where we live, what we've done, what we've experienced, when we exist, who we know, etc.

And as much as our perceptions differ, however, if you overlaid them you'd have an image more like a 3-D movie without the special glasses than an unintelligible contrast of vastly different pictures. We have far more in common - our DNA, our physical structures, our brains - than we do in difference. And for those in our immediate vicinity, we also often share culture and location and language, similarities of experience.

While what you're feeling is dissonance between your individual perception of your world and your perception of the world as you think others see it. Start from the common parts and seek how you arrived at your own divergence, and you will understand how others arrived at theirs. The simple answer could be that you are vibrating at a different frequency than the people that you are associating with.

Normally we prefer hanging around people that are on the same wave length as us or give off the same vibrational level in our thinking process. Similar to a piano, when you hit the key, the string on that frequency vibrates. Now if you hit an F key and expect the C key string to vibrate, that is not going to happen. The same when you are on one vibrational frequency in your thought process and the people around you are on another, you guys are not going to resonate with each other. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre #possessedbywritingspirit #ks1000articles #proudtobeindian