Be Water, My Friend
Jen Forsman
Stagefully Aligning Purpose & Performance for Lasting Impact | Asset Manager | Exec Coach
Hi Stagers!
Bruce Lee: The Dragon Who Became Water
Bruce Lee didn’t just fight the tide—he became it.
His brilliance wasn’t in resisting life’s challenges, but in flowing with them, recognizing that every obstacle holds a hidden opportunity for growth.
True strength, he knew, isn’t battling the waves but intercepting them, using their power to propel us forward—even in the wildest storms.
But, Lee didn’t just talk about being water. He lived it.
As he so beautifully put it: “Be water, my friend.”
Known as a fighter’s fighter and hailed as one of the greatest martial artists of all time, Bruce Lee moved like water—his strikes swift, his movements fluid, every action a reflection of his philosophy. When faced with obstacles, he didn’t brace for impact. He flowed with the current, redirecting its energy and moving forward—never resisting, but always adapting.
At the core of Lee’s philosophy was Jeet Kune Do, or "The Way of the Intercepting Fist"—a martial art born from Lee's desire to break free from tradition. Lee rejected the rigidity of conventional styles, where movements were memorized and repeated without real-time adaptability. While these systems worked, they weren’t fast enough for real-life situations.
So, he invented a style that mirrored the fluidity of life itself. Jeet Kune Do isn’t about memorizing forms or following rules—it’s about acting directly, efficiently, and with precise timing. It’s about meeting challenges head-on, using minimal effort to achieve maximum impact. It’s about striking when the moment is right—not too soon, never too late.
Lee’s approach wasn’t just about fighting—it was a philosophy of living. No rigid forms, no sequences to memorize—just the clearest path through each moment. This philosophy transcended combat, applying to every decision, every interaction, and every action in life.
Imagine being one step ahead—not waiting for the punch, but already in motion, intercepting it before it lands. You’re using the energy of the moment to guide you. Timing isn’t a passive waiting game—it’s a proactive, intuitive decision to act with precision. It’s like reading the room before anyone else even knows what’s coming. In life, as in combat, the greatest strength isn’t in resisting the flow, but in trusting the right moment to act, with purpose.
Lee explained it like this: “Empty your mind. Be formless, shapeless, like water. You put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a teapot, it becomes the teapot. You put it in a bottle, it becomes the bottle. Now water can flow, or it can crash! Be water, my friend.”
Water’s true strength lies not just in its ability to adapt, but in its power to nourish and shape its surroundings without losing its essence. Lee’s words remind us that adaptability isn’t about losing ourselves; it’s about using every moment as an opportunity to grow—knowing when to flow gently and when to crash with purpose.
So, what current in your life are you resisting? This week, let’s allow ourselves to lean into the discomfort, embracing uncertainty and trusting that moving forward with purpose is its own form of strength. We don’t need to have everything figured out. The power lies in choosing to keep moving, trusting that the flow will take us where we need to be.
LIFE PLAY ???
Step into Bruce Lee’s world, where tradition met innovation with every move. In Hollywood, where opportunities were limited, Lee didn’t just find a place for himself—he created space for others, opening doors for future talent. As an Asian American actor, he defied stereotypes and set a new standard for what was possible.
Lee didn’t follow the rules—he adapted them. Critics scoffed, but his teachings transcended boundaries. By making his martial arts accessible to all, he embodied his belief that martial arts should unite, not divide. His open-minded approach created a space where anyone, regardless of background, could learn and grow together.
As he famously said, "Knowing is not enough, we must apply. Willing is not enough, we must do."
Lee’s style was a seamless fusion—Eastern wisdom meeting Western freedom. Jeet Kune Do was more than a martial art; it was a philosophy of adaptability, a bridge between cultures that redefined tradition. By blending the best of both worlds, Lee created a style that was as dynamic and fluid as life itself.
Now, imagine the precision and fluidity of his movements.
Click below to witness his art in motion and feel the energy of his philosophy come to life. For a deeper exploration of his extraordinary journey, dive into this mini documentary to see how he redefined boundaries, not just in martial arts, but across culture and thought.
LIFE TIME ???
Bruce Lee’s journey wasn’t just about martial arts—it was about breaking free from tradition and forging his own path. With every step, he adapted, grew, and transformed. Here are the key moments that shaped the man who inspired millions:
Childhood + Adolescence (0-17 years)
Young Adulthood (18-35 years)
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Posthumously
Lee’s life shows us that real growth comes from adapting—letting go of what holds us back and flowing with life’s changes. His path wasn’t about following a fixed route, but about carving his own path and moving with purpose, just as we can in our own lives.
LIFE PACT ????
Bruce Lee’s story is a reminder that transformation isn’t passive—it’s something we must seek. In moments of struggle, when the way forward feels unclear, his philosophy teaches us that it’s action, driven by adaptability, that pushes us forward in carving a path that’s uniquely ours.
His words, “Absorb what is useful, discard what is not, add what is uniquely your own,” resonate deeply.
Now, let's take a moment and try this together—right now.
Absorb what is useful. Picture yourself at the confluence of two flowing rivers. One carries the habits, tools, thoughts, and people that have supported you. What are they? Who are they? Maybe it’s the quiet morning routine that keeps you grounded, the voice of someone who has always believed in you, or the resilience that has pushed you through even your hardest days. How do these make you feel—safe, confident? What if you leaned into them even more?
Discard what is not. Now, shift your focus to the other river—burdened by doubts, fears, or habits that no longer serve you. Visualize these, weighing you down or cluttering your path. What would it feel like to release them and feel the lightness that follows? Can you sense the space for new possibilities taking form?
Add what is uniquely your own. Finally, look inward. What makes you, you? Picture your strengths shining, your dreams taking shape, and your values guiding each step. What if you let these parts of you live fully today? How would it feel to trust yourself—deeply, completely?
Like Lee, we all face moments where the unknown feels daunting. But what if those moments were opportunities, not obstacles? Instead of resisting, what if we leaned in, flowing through uncertainty with curiosity and courage? Lee’s life shows us it’s not about having all the answers—it’s about adapting, trusting ourselves, and forging a path as we go. Step by step.
So take a deep breath. You’re already closer than you realize to the person you’re becoming. And you’ve had the strength within you all along.
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Wishing you and yours a lovely day.
Fondly,
Founder, Stagefully
Helping You Imagine Stagefully
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Disclaimer:?Please note that ages and dates in this article are approximations. Some events and details may also be estimated or vary slightly due to differing historical sources and the passage of time. Bruce Lee's life was vast, complex, and filled with countless experiences that shaped his remarkable journey. This article highlights key moments and achievements but may not fully capture the depth and nuances of his life.