Warning Rant!
Anne DeButte
Grief & Loss Guide ??Podcast Host ???Author ?? Certified Positive Intelligence Coach
Okay, I've had my 3-year-old temper tantrum and boy does it feel much better!
I’ve discovered after 10 years of following other business experts on how to do business and get clients that I’m a rebel.? I’ve followed their advice for all those years, SEO, financial plans, data, list, network, systems and freebies.
Then the marketing slant turned - ?Stay off social media and even podcasting, depending of course on your big “Why” The list is exhausting.? When is there time for me to help others via my coaching?
I’m tired of marketers reaching out saying they're interested in my service and to tell them more, lol perhaps read my profile?? It’s a bit like would you marry someone on the first date – NO!
Fostering relationships is so important – I learnt that from a wise man Michael J. Hughes North America's Networking Guru - I'm tired......
So, I’ve decided I’m finally rebelling and doing me!
I find when I show up that way, magic happens.??
In my authentic way,? I coach women to find their way when grieving, I don’t follow the rules.? What do you mean by "the rules" I use intuition (my internal guidance) and connect to the issues my clients are bringing, ones that weigh heavy on their hearts.? We slowly start to untangle their grief.
Grieving a loss covers so much ground and is in every aspect of our lives, how can I pick only one part of that to help them with? In other words, how do I pick my main people to serve?
Who is my ideal client, well up until now, my practice has been mainly ambitious mid-life, women who’ve discovered through death or divorce that their life as they knew it has been halted.? Yes, these clients are heartbroken but they’re also open, committed and willing to do what it takes to understand the whats and whys of what they are going through. They want to heal and feel better, to feel and find themselves once more.?
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Being committed to their healing is the operative word.
When coaching with me they discover that grief encompasses so much more than emotions and feelings. ?When they leave our sessions they have more understanding and feel more confident in taking action steps towards their self-care and healing. How can I limit my coaching to just one area of grief?
Coaching isn’t therapy, it’s about supporting you to go from where you are now to where you want to be.
If you want to work through your grieving time and learn the wisdom and gifts grief leaves behind to move forward to the new life that is awaiting you, then I’m the coach for you. No pressure or sales tactics just an honest conversation.
I value authenticity and cannot hide behind anything that feels manipulating.
Thanks for reading and Yes, I do coach men, unfortunately, I’ve discovered men tend not to ask!
INFO: to know more about my work, please check the website https://www.understandinggrief.com or my social media channels. Also to hear what I'm about you can have a wee listen to our Podcast Let's Talk About Grief with Anne
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Helping you take control of your mind, get into the driver's seat of your emotions, get and keep healthy relationships and live your boss life! Counselling/Therapy/MentalHealth/Coaching/Leadership/ Consulting
11 个月I am glad to hear you are doing it your way Anne. I found in my experience that the so called "experts" on how to run your business have not been so helpful to me. Since, I decided to do it my way, I am so much happier with my business and life!
Founder & CEO @ Light Your Leadership Inc. | Leadership Coaching | The VP Coach | Keynote Speaker
11 个月Well said Anne DeButte! ??
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11 个月Anne DeButte, well said!
I am the Transformational Life Coach and Collaboration Partner for Women Business Owners who want to work in a different way to create the life and business they desire.
11 个月Well said Anne DeButte! Can I just cut/paste this into my feed? ?? Celebrating the authentically, beautifully rebellious YOU! Grief is not a path to go alone and I'm so grateful you exist in this world to help the way you do. ??
Helping business/sales professionals identify, access and leverage networks for optimal results.
11 个月Good for you. Thanks for mention.