Want to increase your productivity? Stop saying yes
Nikul Shah
Empowering South Asian Men to Excel in Health and Energy ?? | Executive Performance Coach ??
I ???????? ???? ?????????? ???????????? ?????? was always ????????.
Especially when I ?????????????? ???????????????? a ??-???????????? ?????????????????????? ?????????????? in East Africa.
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Only ?????? ???? ????.
My ???????? ???????? ???????? ???? ????????????????…
I usually ?????????? ???? “???????????????? ???? ??????” ???????? ?????????????????? ?????? ????????.
I remember ?????????????? ????????????????, so I decided to ?????????? ???? ???? ????????????.
“?????? did you ???????????? ???????? ???????? ?????????????? ?????????????? ???????”
My mentor responded...“???????? ???????????? ?????????? it is ???????? ???? ?????? ?????? ?????? to ?????????? ?????????????? that comes their way
Not just in your career, but also in your personal life.
People would ask me...
Do you have ???????? ?????? ???????? ???????????????
Do you want to come for ??????????-???????? ?????????????
Do you want to ???????????? ???????? ???????????
And I would initially reply…
Yes, yes, and yes.
?????? did I ?????????? ???????????? ?????? ?????? ?????????
Because I ?????????????? ???????????? ?????? ??????????...
????????? ?????????????????????????? come my way
??????? ?????????????????? anyone
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The ?????????? ????, ???????????? ?????? ???? ????????.
And it ?????????? ??????????, if what I say yes to is ?????????????? ???????? my ???????????????????????? ?????? ???????????????? ??????????.
But ??????????, ?? ???????? ???? ???????? ???????????????????????? ?????? ???????????????? ??????????.
?????????????????? there is ???? ?????? ???? ?????????????????? what is right or wrong for me.
But it is ???????? ?????????????????? ???????????? ???? when my ?????????? ?????? ?????????????? are ?????? ?????????????? with what comes my way”.
My mentor paused.?
The whole thing about ???????????? ???? ?????????? ???????? ?????????? to me.
“But didn’t you ???????? ???????? ?????? ?????????? ?????????? ?????????? ???????????? by ???????????? ?????” I asked my mentor.
“Of course, ?????????????????? ?? ???????? the...
??Fear of ??????????????????????
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But ?????? ???? ?? ?????? ???????? ???????????? ???? ?????????????????????
I ???????? ???????????? ???????? ?????????? ???????????? ??????????...
And I ???????? ???????? ?????????? ???????? ?? ?????????? ?????????? ????????????.
It was ?????? ???? ?????????????????? ????????????.?
It ???????? a lot of ????????, ???????????? ?????? ????????????????????.?
Bottom line is that I have to make myself happy…
And ?????? ?????????? ???? ???????????????? ????????????.
???????????? ???? ??????????...
?????????????? ?????? to achieving my ?????? ??????????
?????????????????????? my focus
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?????????????????????? my ????????????”.
Our conversation ended.
My view on saying yes had switched completely!
What did I learn?
If I ???????????? ???? ?????? ???????? ????????..,?
I needed to ?????????? ???? ?????????????????? on the ?????????????? ???????????? ???????????? ????????????????????.
That meant ???????????? ???? ????...
????????????????? where I was not required
????????????? that I did not have to meet
????????????????? that were not aligned with what the ultimate goal was
What happened?
I was able to go from
???????????????? and on the ?????????? ???? ???????????????
To
?????????????? and ??????????????????.
The result??
?????????????????? ????????????????????????, ???????????????? ???????? to ?????????? on ???????? ?????????????? to me…
Which is my ????????????, ?????????????????????????? and ??????????????.
???????? ???? ?????? ???? ???????? ???????????
1??Take time and energy to ???????????? ?????? ???????? ????????????????????
2?????????????? to living in line with your priorities
3???????? ???? to everything that doesn’t matter
Take action.
Nikul
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