Wake Up: The Cold, Hard Truth About Why You’re Not as Productive as You Think
Dragos Calin
Business & Organisational Consultant @ Qualians, Psychologist, Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist, Partner @ MAX-BA, Psy. M
Let’s be honest—most people are coasting. They show up, do what’s expected, and clock out without a second thought. But here’s the reality: if you’re just “doing your job,” you’re already losing. Productivity isn’t about filling the hours—it’s about making every moment count, finding smarter ways to get ahead, and creating your own success.
If you’re waiting for someone to tell you what to do, you’ve already wasted precious time. Freud would’ve had a field day with this. “The extra mile is never crowded” because most people aren’t willing to push themselves. Freud (1923) theorized that much of human behavior is driven by unconscious forces—fear of failure, desire for comfort, the easy way out. Sound familiar? That’s why most people settle for the bare minimum. And that’s exactly why they never stand out.
Stop Waiting for Opportunity: It’s Not Coming
Here’s the brutal truth: opportunity isn’t going to fall into your lap. The world doesn’t owe you anything. Jacques Lacan, one of the sharpest minds in psychoanalysis, argued that our entire lives are defined by what we desire (Lacan, 1977). But desire without action is just wishful thinking. If you’re waiting for someone to offer you the next big project or a promotion, you’re not hungry enough. The people who make it don’t wait—they create opportunities.
Still waiting for the right moment? Spoiler: there isn’t one. Perfect timing is a myth, and the more you wait for it, the further behind you fall. Lacan would say that chasing an ideal moment is chasing an illusion—it’s never going to arrive unless you make it happen.
If You Want It Done Right, Do It Now (Not “Later”)
Ever notice how when you wait for “later,” it never really comes? You’re fooling yourself if you think pushing tasks to tomorrow makes you productive today. “Do it now” is a mantra you should be living by, because “later” often turns into “never.” This isn’t just motivational fluff—it’s a fact backed by human psychology. Carl Jung emphasized the importance of self-awareness and facing reality (Jung, 1933). You either act now, or you watch the opportunities slip away, one delay at a time.
And if you’re relying on others to carry the load? Forget it. “If you want something done right, do it yourself.” Erik Erikson would tell you that adulthood is all about balancing productivity and stagnation (Erikson, 1963). The people who thrive in their careers don’t wait for someone else to get it done. They take ownership.
You think delegation is the key to all productivity? Maybe in theory. But in the real world, bad delegation is often a shortcut to disappointment. You’re waiting for someone else to care as much as you do—spoiler alert: they won’t.
Success Doesn’t Knock, It Kicks the Door Down
“Success doesn’t come to you; you go to it.” Think about that. If you’re waiting for someone to recognize your talent, you’re going to wait a long time. The corporate world isn’t a meritocracy. No one cares how hard you work until you show results. Freud’s concept of the superego (Freud, 1923) reminds us that we internalize societal expectations, but here’s the kicker: society expects mediocrity. If you want to stand out, you have to actively defy those expectations.
So, what’s holding you back? Fear of failure? Comfort? Procrastination disguised as “waiting for the right moment”? Whatever it is, know this: time’s not on your side. Every day you don’t take action is a day someone else is closing the deal, landing the promotion, or stealing your next big opportunity.
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No One’s Coming to Save You
Here’s the bottom line: stop waiting for someone to fix your problems, give you the opportunity, or push you to the next level. It’s not happening. Your success—or failure—is 100% in your hands.
The extra mile? It’s not glamorous. It’s not fun. And no, it’s not fair that you have to push harder while others coast. But life’s not fair, and the sooner you accept that, the sooner you can start doing something about it.
Get Uncomfortable—That’s Where Growth Happens
You want to stay where you are, doing what’s easy? Fine. But don’t expect extraordinary results from ordinary effort. Growth happens when you push yourself past your comfort zone. Erikson (1963) stressed that without challenge, we stagnate. And stagnation is the fastest path to irrelevance in the workplace.
So, next time you’re about to say, “I’ll do it tomorrow,” or “I’ll wait for my boss to give me the green light,” stop yourself. Do it now. Because “tomorrow” is the excuse that’ll bury your potential.
Wake Up Call
In a world where everyone’s waiting, be the one who acts. In a sea of people doing the bare minimum, be the one who outworks, outthinks, and outpaces them. The reality is harsh: no one’s going to hand you success. You’ve got to take it.
References
Erikson, E. H. (1963). Childhood and society. Norton.
Freud, S. (1923). The ego and the id. Hogarth Press.
Jung, C. G. (1933). Modern man in search of a soul. Harcourt Brace Jovanovich.
Lacan, J. (1977). écrits: A selection. Norton.
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