Waiting for the right time is the worst strategy. Here’s why…

Waiting for the right time is the worst strategy. Here’s why…

When pursuing our goals, it's natural to want ideal conditions — the perfect moment to embark on a new venture, initiate a challenging workout routine, or make that crucial business call.

However, this strategy is deeply flawed in more ways than one.?

Let me explain…

Perfect Conditions: An Elusive Mirage

The idea of “perfect conditions” is often an illusion. Life is inherently unpredictable, and waiting for an ideal moment can be an endless pursuit. Whether in business, fitness, or personal aspirations, perfect conditions are usually the exception, not the rule.

Recognizing this is the first step toward breaking free from the shackles of waiting.

Here’s why:

  • Perfect Conditions Are Rare: As mentioned, waiting for ideal conditions means waiting for something that is rare and may never materialize.?
  • Opportunities don't wait: Delaying action or hard work in the hope of better conditions leads to missed chances for growth, learning, and success.
  • Progress Requires Adaptability: Real progress involves adapting to less-than-ideal circumstances. Waiting for perfection may mean avoiding the necessary challenges contributing to personal and professional growth.
  • Time Doesn't Stop: Time is a finite resource, and waiting for perfect conditions does nothing but waste it. The longer you wait, the more moments for progress slip away.
  • Perfection is Subjective: What may seem like perfect conditions to one person might not be the same for another. The subjective nature of “perfection” makes it an unreliable standard to wait for.
  • Fear of Failure Intensifies: Waiting for perfection is often a manifestation of the fear of failure. Embracing imperfections and taking action — despite uncertainties — is vital to overcoming this fear and achieving success.
  • Life is Unpredictable: Life is filled with uncertainties, and waiting for perfect conditions is akin to waiting for stability in an inherently unpredictable world. It’s simple—Embracing uncertainty and taking calculated risks leads to more fulfilling outcomes!
  • Learning Through Challenges: Many valuable lessons are learned through facing adversity. Waiting for perfect conditions denies chances for growth that come from navigating difficulties.
  • Action Breeds Confidence: Taking action—even in less-than-ideal situations—builds confidence. Waiting for perfect conditions just perpetuates a cycle of hesitation and self-doubt.
  • Procrastination: The pursuit of perfection often becomes a form of procrastination. Waiting for the perfect moment can be an excuse to delay taking the necessary steps toward your goal.
  • “The Journey” Matters: Success is not just about reaching the destination; it's about the journey! Waiting for perfection means missing out on the richness of the experiences, lessons, and growth that come with the adventure.
  • Regret Awaits: Waiting for perfect conditions leads to a future filled with regret — regarding procrastination, not seizing opportunities, and allowing fear to dictate your choices!

The Silver Lining of Less-Than-Perfect Conditions

As I stood on the shores of Panama City Beach, FL, on November 4th, 2023, preparing to dive into the waters for my latest Ironman challenge, a wave of anticipation washed over me.?

This wasn't “just another race” to me (none of them are). It was the culmination of countless hours of training, many of which took place in conditions that could be described as less than ideal.

My philosophy, whether in training, business, or life, is to embrace the challenges that are thrown my way.?

Why not train in more challenging conditions so that when the real test arrives, it becomes second nature?

The swimming portion of the Ironman that day was a testament to this approach. The conditions were as close to perfect as they could be—around 80 degrees, calm waters, and minimal wind. It was the kind of day athletes dream of. Yet, what made the experience truly memorable was the contrast between the race day perfection and the hours spent training in harsher conditions.

As I swam through the pristine waters of Panama City Beach that day, I couldn't help but reflect on the journey that brought me here. The memory of those grueling training sessions heightened the sweet taste of accomplishment.?

The realization hit me:?

Training in more demanding conditions made the "real deal" much more beautiful!

Everyday Examples of “Seizing the Now”

The philosophy of “seizing the now” resonates across various facets of life. Making those hard phone calls, facing rejection, and overcoming obstacles may be uncomfortable, but they set the stage for success in the future. Just as running in the rain builds resilience, it enhances the appreciation for sunny days.

Perhaps you’re thinking about pursuing a business venture, but in your mind, “Times are too hard.” Starting a business in challenging times may seem daunting, but it's akin to training in adverse conditions. The difficulties encountered in the beginning become stepping stones to future success. Why wait for the perfect moment when the sweetness of accomplishment is magnified by the challenges you overcome?

Life — like an Ironman — is an unpredictable journey. Adversity is inevitable, but it's our response to it that shapes our experience. Embracing challenges, training in adverse conditions, and tackling difficulties head-on prepare us for the road ahead and enrich the destination.

So, the next time you hesitate to make that tough call, go for a run in the rain, or second guess starting a new venture in challenging times, remember the story from the Ironman:?

The real sweetness of success comes to those who aren't afraid to work through the storm, knowing that it's an essential part of growth and success.

The Perfect Time is NOW

In pursuing our goals, waiting for perfect conditions is a luxury we cannot afford. The call to action is clear: seize the present moment! Recognize that waiting for the ideal time is a hindrance, not a strategy for success.?

Avis Jones-DeWeever, Ph.D.

I teach Black women entrepreneurs in service industries how to develop high-ticket and ultra-high-ticket offers, implement high-profile media and marketing methods, and close sales like a BOSS.

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