Wait. Win. Repeat.
Kavita Bothra
Mentor of money matters | Founder - Primassure LLP | Inspiring a thousand families onto the journey of financial liberation, one step at a time. Writer -SundayReads | I write on Behavioural Finance | Retirement Solutions
"The future depends on what you do today." - Mahatma Gandhi
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Dear Investors and Friends:
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Wishing you a Happy New Year! And a warm welcome to this week’s SundayReads.
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Today, let me share some life tales.
Our client Sampada, dreams of launching her own tech startup. Each evening, after her demanding job, she's greeted with a choice: to lose herself in the latest Bollywood drama series or to invest time in her entrepreneurial aspirations. The decision isn't easy. One night, Sampada turns off her TV and opens her laptop, sketching out her business plan. This small, yet significant decision marks the start of a transformative journey towards her dream.
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Sampada's everyday scenario mirrors a challenge we all face in various forms: the battle between succumbing to immediate pleasures and pursuing long-term ambitions. In the bustling streets of Indian cities, where life moves at a breakneck pace, and distractions are plentiful, the art of delaying gratification becomes essential. It's not just about resisting the temptation of a moment but about embracing the vision of a rewarding future.
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Consider Arjun, a university student in Mumbai. He's often tempted to spend his limited pocket money on the latest tech gadgets and trendy clothes. However, he chooses to save for an advanced programming course, envisioning a future as a software developer.
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There's also Jhalak from Indore, a software designer with a passion for health and fitness. She frequently bypasses the temptation of indulging in street food, choosing healthier options to maintain her fitness regime.
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In Delhi, we meet Vikram, a middle-aged professional. He faces the daily temptation to neglect exercise after a tiring day at work. Yet, he understands the importance of health in the long run and consistently dedicates time to staying active.
In Kolkata, there's Ritu, a high school teacher saving diligently for her daughter's education, even if it means skipping luxury vacations.
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Each of these stories represents not just discipline but also a deep understanding of long-term rewards over fleeting pleasures.
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For those interested in exploring this concept further, several books offer profound insights. "The Marshmallow Test" by Walter Mischel explores the benefits of self-control. "Grit" by Angela Duckworth illustrates how perseverance and passion contribute to long-term achievements. "Atomic Habits" by James Clear provides actionable strategies for developing habits aligned with future goals.
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In today's world, where instant gratification is often a tap away, the ability to wait for more significant rewards is a skill of immense value. Whether it's in the realms of personal health, career growth, financial stability, or even personal relationships, the power of delayed gratification can lead to a life that is not only successful but deeply satisfying and fulfilling. As we navigate through our daily choices, let's remember the profound impact of patience and long-term thinking in shaping a life of purpose and achievement.
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Until the next week and the next SundayRead, Ciao.
Sincerely,
Kavita Bothra
Helping you think thoughts you may not have thought before.
Managing Director at SP Ultraflex Systems Pvt. Ltd.
1 年Better the shortlived pain of discipline than a lifetime of regret.