A Very Odd Thing...

A Very Odd Thing...

This is a very short article. I suppose it's an op-ed really, but LinkedIn doesn't have a place for them, so you've got an article from me instead.

The Very Odd Thing

There's a very odd thing about our profession.

I've encountered it from various coach training organisations and some of our professional bodies.

The odd thing is this: the idea that promoting one's services is distasteful.

I don't get it. What's distasteful about the ethical, authentic promotion of a product or service? Particularly when the product or service is excellent and we would benefit from being offered the opportunity to make a decision for ourselves.

Let me give you an example. There are many face-to-face meetings of coaches all over the country. They meet to discuss coaching techniques, relevant books and tools and to network. Sometimes, these meetings will have a guest speaker. That guest speaker might be—for example—the author of a coaching book. (I'm not talking about me here. My book is most definitely not a coaching book.)

Here comes the odd part.

The rules of some of these groups say that a) speakers cannot be paid and b) they must not promote a product or service. When I say must not promote I mean, mustn't mention it at all! So the author of the book can talk about their book, but they're not allowed to say, 'You can buy it on Amazon'. Weird!

Here's the thing...

If you want a speaker, you either a) pay them or b) allow them to mention their product or service in lieu of payment. That's how commerce works. Otherwise, what's in it for the speaker?

Exposure?

Here's the next thing—Sainsbury's doesn't accept exposure, nor does your mortgage company or, indeed, any of the utility companies. In fact, exposure isn't worth anywhere near as much as the person or organisation offering it believes it to be.

I find the 'filthy lucre' philosophy utterly perplexing. What's more, no other profession does it.

Can you imagine a lawyer agreeing to come and speak for exposure?

Or a senior medic?

The really weird part of this is that these same organisations talk about 6-figure salaries and 5-figure fees.

So what's going on here? Why are we, as a profession, allowed to discuss salaries and fees, but we mustn't have our gatherings sullied by having an opportunity to buy something that we think is valuable?

Why do our professional bodies and training organisations protect us from commerce so fiercely, even when we could benefit from what is being offered?

Why are we not able to make that decision for ourselves?

Explain It To Me

I'd love it if someone could explain this allergy to normal commercial transactions that our profession has.


Alan J Sears

Author, Speaker, Coach, Consultant

6 个月

As always Sarah you hit the nail bang on the head! I have often been asked to speak about things other than coaching and on those occasions have always been offered a fee - if often a very minimal one!

Sarah Herbert

Helping worn out women in education stay well to thrive at work & home | health support | workplace workshops | sleep | stress | menopause and ageing well | 10 week bespoke 1-1 health reset £1500 | Kick start groups £99

6 个月

It is back to the 'is coaching a pyramid scheme' question...we should not be a self serving community but remain true to our mission of finding people who need us (and can pay us) to do this important work with them.

Janine Shapiro

Helping women 42 + create beyond your limits & be who you can become|Healer| Entrepreneur|Speaker | Writer | Energy Alignment | linktr.ee/janine_kathleen

6 个月

Very powerful points here. It feels as if it's about control and poverty minded thinking. Sarah Short

Stephen Foster

Business Owner @ Steve Foster Enterprises | MBA, Leadership Development

6 个月

Simply put it reeks of hypocrisy. It’s my policy not to accept hypocritical games or methods. I will leverage my business anyway and anyhow I see fit because yes, I get paid but most importantly I help people. Lots of people become better and sometimes greater at the things they want to be or become.

Susana Prado

??Career & Business Mentor | Career Change | ?? Interview Preparation | ?? ??1st Job Mentoring | ?Leadership Mentoring/Coaching |?MasterMind |?PNL | ?? English Teacher For Professionals | ? Proud Mother

6 个月

Good for thought! Loved it!??????????????????

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