The values by which we conduct ourselves: A tribute to my lovely Dad
Debra Sobel
Purpose-Driven Strategic Communications & Storytelling | Consultant | Public Speaker | Trustee
We're all living through very strange and tumultuous times; times which have forced many of us to step off the treadmill and stop and reflect more than we might usually on the deeper questions in life. From how we behave and treat others in our business lives, what our purpose is beyond profit – if indeed we have one - to what and who is most important to us, how we protect the more vulnerable in society, look after the mental and physical health of our families and friends, ring-fence our children's education and strengthen our communities.
These past few weeks have been more than tumultuous for me personally. My wonderful dad, Stanley Michaels, lost his cruel battle with Covid-19 on April 23rd aged just 73. Only seven weeks ago, he was still working full time running his successful accountancy practice, and busy fulfilling a multitude of communal activities.
In recent days, I’ve been reflecting on the core values and principles which were very important to my dad, and by which he conducted himself, both in his business and personal life. It feels appropriate to share them now, as part of his legacy:
* Put yourself in other people's shoes. Be empathetic and try to understand others needs.
* A kind word and a thank you go a very long way.
* Always treat others how you want to be treated yourself.
* Never take anyone for granted.
* Aim to make everyone feel at ease in your presence.
* Be honest, open and transparent in all your dealings.
* Be humble.
* Get involved and connect with your community.
* If you can enable someone to earn a living, it's one of the best things you can do.
* There's no such thing as 'can't'. It's about setting goals, working smart to find solutions and surrounding yourself by others who can help you achieve them.
Over the past month or two, we've seen people and businesses do amazing things for each other and society. My hope is that this continues beyond the current crisis. It's certainly what my dad would have wanted.
Wishing you well in these times.
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3 年Thanks. As a 77 year old/young I appreciate this post. My wife of almost 50 years and i have had the luxury of spending time together and reappreciating each other! Covid has taught us all a great deal!
Lovely article, your father would be proud of you I am sure. Take care
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4 年So sorry for your loss. ??? ???? ????.
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4 年Amazing. Wishing you and all your family wonderful memories .
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4 年Oh no Debra - I’m so so sorry - Rachel x