The value of giving space in personal relationships
Ruuchi Rathorr
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Introduction
The value of giving space in personal relationships is often overlooked, yet it is an essential ingredient for a healthy relationship. Giving space means allowing your partner to have their own time, interests, and independence. It means not being overly possessive or controlling, and allowing your partner to have room to grow and develop as an individual.
Don't ask your partner to be everywhere all the time.
You can't always be there for your partner, so don't try. If you and your partner are both too busy to give each other space, it will be impossible to maintain an intimate relationship. You need time to do things alone or with friends—and if you can't have this time now, when will it happen?
If you want to maintain a healthy relationship with someone who cares about you, respect them enough
Trust that they will come back to being close again if you give them lots of space.
The first thing you need to do is trust that your partner
If you don't trust the person that is giving you space, then it's probably not a good sign for your relationship. When someone asks for space and doesn't return calls or texts, this can be really upsetting and confusing.
The best way to handle these situations is by talking about it with your partner as soon as possible because if there are underlying issues going on in their life or with the relationship itself then not communicating about it won't help at all (and might even make things worse).
Talking about your needs and boundaries with a partner is a good idea.
When it comes to personal relationships, you need to be honest about your needs and boundaries. You also need to be honest about your limitations, fears and dreams. And finally, you should be honest about how you feel about everything as well.
When you're in a relationship with someone who's always there for you, then it might not seem like such a big deal to say: "Hey! I don't want this thing that's happening all the time." Or "Hey! Can we have more sex?" Or even (if appropriate) "Hey! Can we stop having sex?" But if your partner is busy working 60 hours a week at their job or just doesn't listen very well because they think they know better than everyone else in the world combined—then those conversations can get complicated fast.
You may want to tell them that their behavior is hurting or annoying you but then again maybe not so much because then they'll never change anything ever again which would mean no more sex or hugs either way…
It's okay to say no, even if you've been doing someone's work for years.
Be honest with yourself. If you don't want to do something, say no. It's okay to say no if you don't know how to do something new or if it doesn't feel right for your life at this moment.
If someone asks you for help and then gets mad when you say no, ask them what their plans are for the next step if they're not getting exactly what they want from you. You may find that this gives them more peace of mind than anything else would have done—it's very validating for people to know that there are other options available besides having their demands met by others
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It's okay to say no if you don't feel like doing something for the first time.
You don't have to do everything someone asks you to do.
You don't have to do everything someone wants to do.
You don't have to do everything someone wants to do right now.
You don't even have to do everything someone wants or likes, if it isn't something you want or like.
Realize when you don't think the relationship is worth the effort these days.
Realize when you don't think the relationship is worth the effort these days.
Sometimes, we’re in a relationship because it feels like something we should be doing. We have this idea that it’s nice to have people around us and want some level of companionship in our lives, so we stay in relationships that aren’t working anymore. This can mean having a lot of casual friends or even people who are close to us but who aren’t good for us.
It may be time to let go if:
Many couples enjoy giving each other space when they need it
Giving each other space is a good thing. It helps you to think clearly, it can help you to be more productive and focused, and it can help you to stay relaxed.
Many couples enjoy giving each other space when they need it. They may decide that they want to spend some time apart because of work or family commitments. But sometimes people want to spend some time apart because they just need some alone time in order to feel better about themselves and the relationship overall. No matter what the reasons are for wanting space, the key here is communication between both parties so that neither feels abandoned or over-controlled by their partner's needs or desires at any given moment during their relationship (or not-yet-relationship).
Conclusion
In conclusion, giving space in personal relationships is an important aspect of maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship. It allows for a sense of individuality
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