The Value of Being A People Person - Why You Need “People Skills”

The Value of Being A People Person - Why You Need “People Skills”

Some people are so skilled at working with People that they ought to be in a relationship hall of fame. People such as Dale Carnegie, John Wooden, Ronald Reagan, and Norman Vincent Peale easily come to mind. Likewise there are people whose relational abilities could make them candidates for a relational hall of shame. Leona Helmsley, Henry Ford (Sr.), Frank Lorenzo, and Dennis Rodman have such reputations.

You don't have go into history books before you readily find some examples of these relational extremes. You actually have them within your immediate environment where you can easily see them everyday. Interview entrepreneurs to find out what separates successes from failure and they'll tell you its "People Skills". Top sales people will also tell you its "People skills" first, then product knowledge. Teachers, Parents, Pastors, Tradesmen will equally tell you that people skills make the difference between those who excel and those who don't.

"It doesn't matter what you want to do. If you can win with people, you can win"- J.C. Maxwell

Many people fall into the trap of taking relationships for granted. That's horrible. Our ability to build and maintain healthy relationships is the single most important factor in how we get along in every area of life.

Our people skills determine our potential for success.

According to Robert W. Woodruff, (The man whose leadership transformed Coca-cola company from a small, regional beverage producer to a global operation and financial powerhouse said this:   

"Life is pretty much a selling job. Whether we succeed or fail is largely a matter of how well we motivate the human beings with whom we deal to “buy” us and what we offer. Success or failure on any job or project is essentially a matter of HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS. Success sometimes boil down to how we handle family members, customers, employees, employers, fellow workers and associates. If the reaction we get from others is favorable, then we are quite likely to succeed. If the reaction is unfavourable we are doomed"- From Zig Ziglar's book "Top Performance".

All of life's successes come from initiating relationships with the right people and then strengthening those relationships by using good people skills.


Resource Person:

Leke Oshiyemi - Cornell University, NY Alumni. Masters, Unilag, Public Administration (Human Resources). BA, Philosophy, O.O.U. ACIPM, NITAD, HRMP -SHRM, formerly Employee Engagement & Partnerships Manager, HR Business Partner, Career Development Manager, Human Resources Manager with Nigerian Breweries Plc, Honeywell Flour Mills Plc respectively. He is a reputable HR Consultant/Trainer/Recruiter. He has over 20 years of work experience spanning the manufacturing, consulting, services and the financial sector of the Nigerian Economy. He's the MD/CEO Rekrut Consulting Limited RC.1088540 (Established since 2012)

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Mahendra Chauhan

plant manager, Imperial beverages Ltd, Lagos

6 年

If there is any possibility for me in nija . please share.

Mahendra Chauhan

plant manager, Imperial beverages Ltd, Lagos

6 年

Congrats Leke! Good to see you on LinkedIn.

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