Use a gentle touch

There’s a force out there, whether you call it destiny or use some other words that bring people together who are meant to be together.

It’s the butterfly story. If you hold a butterfly too tightly in your hands, you take all the oil off its wings and it can’t fly. You can have the butterfly that way, but the butterfly can’t be a butterfly. If you really love a butterfly, you won’t rub all the oil off its wings just so you can clutch it in your hands.

If you really love something or someone, don’t hold on too tightly.

Let that person be free.

Let people be who they are.

Don’t rub the oil off the butterfly’s wings.

Let it fly back to you on its own.?

New York, 11.14.2022