The Unspoken Boardroom Ballet
Leni Christine Dale Jebsen, cpcc, pcc, orscc, ctpc
Executive Team & Leadership Coach | Speaker & Facilitator | Business Owner | Impactful Board Member | Mother of 4 | ????????
Welcome to the first issue of my bi-weekly exploration into authentic leadership insights, crafted for women with candor and heart!
Picture this: you're at the table where decisions are shaped, futures are forged, and voices like yours are pivotal. Yet, in this dance of dialogue, your contributions a bit too often fade into the silence between beats. It's a familiar scene for many, a scenario that Eva, a seasoned leader, knows all too well.
Eva’s story isn't unique, but her response is. In the face of being overlooked, she doesn’t echo the voices around her; she finds her rhythm. It's not about blending in; it’s about standing out with composure and clarity.
Inner Power and Resilience
In those critical moments, it’s about the quiet power that comes from within – the steady breath that centers, the inner dialogue that empowers, the boundaries that define not just space but worth.
Building Resilience & Leadership Tenacity
How did she get there? Why wasn't her self-confidence shattered when she was overlooked and ignored? Why didn't she become filled with uncertainty and doubt? How come she didn't give up?
It's not that she was, or is, unfazed or doesn't care. Eva has worked consistently to shape and form a strong and healthy inner dialogue. She pays attention to her inner critic, but she is not ruled by it. She focuses on what is important to her, her values, and her leadership legacy. She prioritizes self-care to maintain her stamina, and she knows when to say yes and when to say no. Her "No" is without guilt.
So, what’s the takeaway from Eva's story? It's that leadership isn't about volume; it’s about tenacity. It’s not about echoing others but about ensuring your voice carries the weight it deserves. To know where you are headed and why. To know what you want to stand for and what you are not willing to tolerate.
Embracing Your Worth
In our leadership journey, we may all have an 'Eva moment' when we feel ignored and marginalized. The blow to our gut when we feel marginalized, are met with sarcasm or ridicule, is painful. When moments like these come, remember: Your expertise isn't just a footnote in someone else’s agenda; it’s the headline. Your presence isn't just a token; it's a testament.
To carry this conversation forward, share your thoughts, your experiences, and yes, those 'Eva moments' and how you handled them.
If you find yourself searching for that steadying breath or need a sounding board, my inbox is open, or schedule a complimentary discovery session and let's talk!
Until next time, keep leading with precision, passion, and presence!
Leadership Development Specialist | Emotional Intelligence Expert | Burnout Prevention and 'Slow-Productivity' Advocate
6 个月Leni- great topics and timely advice. Thank you!
Great article??Our inner work to cultivate our true power is more important than ever.
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6 个月Brilliant!! You are right on target with this article Leni! ??