Unmasking Deception: Exposing the Anatomy of Scams
This LinkedIn post is among the most candid and admittingly embarrassing updates I've ever shared.
Several years ago, during my time in Asia, I found myself drawn into a financial ordeal that cost me a significant $25,000.
I was introduced to the so-called 'Richard Branson of Southeast Asia' who turned out to be anything but that, as I would soon discover firsthand. At that time, I was a young and ambitious investor, deeply immersed in the startup scene, either investing in emerging ventures or actively seeking new investment opportunities. My ambition sometimes clouded my judgment. I wasn't exactly flush with cash, so this financial hit had serious consequences for me.
In retrospect, it was an invaluable, albeit expensive lesson that taught me to recognize the common patterns of scams, the knowledge I hope to pay forward these days.
Before we finalized any equity deals, money transactions, or signed any agreements, this individual would often send his chauffeur in a Rolls Royce to whisk me away for extravagant dinners and nights out. We played poker in his opulent mansion, surrounded by film producers and self-proclaimed titans of industry. It was easy to imagine that this luxurious world could one day be mine.
He always treated me like the guest of honor, introducing me as his protege. He promised astronomical returns and even floated the idea of me heading up his global marketing department. What an opportunity, right? Not only would my investment multiply, but I could steer the ship.
I bought into his vision, which aligned with my deep passion for global conservation and ecology. His company was poised to revolutionize recycling, and I was thrilled to be part of it.
He always had a cigar in his mouth and boasted about his powerful and influential friends, displaying photos of himself with former US presidents, Hollywood stars, and other luminaries. He painted himself as a genius deal-maker and business guru, with plans to groom me for the same role one day.
I confess that I did hear rumors of caution from close friends, but I dismissed them, convinced they were mistaken. After all, I was his protege.
He played all the right notes, showcasing a lifestyle that few could dream of. He saw potential in me and wanted me in his world. I took the leap, signed the paperwork, and transferred the money. Less than two hours later, I received an anonymous text warning me not to invest, revealing the intention to scam me. Panic set in as my heart raced and cold sweat kicked in.
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It all came crashing down around me. No more Rolls Royce waiting for me, no more poker nights or fancy dinners. He started to give me the cold shoulder and it felt horrible.
I had to maintain composure and attempted to recover my funds. He assured me my money was secure but then claimed to be ill and needed to be hospitalized. He sent me pictures of himself in a hospital bed, draped in a gown and cap, citing the need to delay our business plans.
This back-and-forth continued until all messages and calls went unanswered. He had moved on to his next victim, and I was left empty-handed.
These might have been the days before crypto, but there are discernible signs and patterns in these situations, which I hope will serve as a cautionary tale for those chasing their investment dreams:
In my case, I paid a hefty price for a valuable lesson, which I keep as a "diploma" of sorts. However, several years later, I can't help but think of this scam almost every month and how this is still happening throughout Web3.
Sadly the crypto world is no stranger to nefarious characters, scams, and rug pulls, and these patterns most definitely apply here too. Let's stay vigilant, share our experiences, and clean up the industry once and for all.
Invest wisely and always do your own research (DYOR).
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1 年It's interesting how much overlap there is between conmen and narcissists. I would add a golden rule above these that has always served me well: 1. Don't seek wealth for personal gain. By not seeking wealth you are not susceptible to the worst of the scams. It's one thing to lose small amounts of money to minor scams or via questionable donations... It's entirely another thing to put your life savings into another person's hand. Something you would never do if "wealth" isn't your end goal. Wealth to generate wealth is always a scam, even if it "works."
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1 年A brilliant read, I know it took a lot for you to share this, however being transparent with these things will hopefully help others not fall victim to similar. PS I didn’t know you was a pro content writer, really enjoyable read.
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1 年Sorry about the loss. Learning from such experiences is important. I'm glad you were able to take away valuable lessons. Sharing it here will definitely help save others from falling victim to similar scams.
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1 年I was client scammed, romance scammed and even family scammed. I lost around 35K PLN last year. I speak publicly about this. I'd rather be a victim than a scammer. It's they who should be embarrassed. This isn't the new normal. This is a dysfunction. A huge dysfunction.