"Unlocking More Than Just Doors: Facing the Truth vs. Comforting Lies."
Niran Ojomo, MD
Preventative Psychiatrist, Classics-Informed Consultant, Speaker, Author of ALIVE OR NOT ALIVE, Founder of GENEXT INC, and Host of Wellness Artist PODCAST.
"A man with a conviction is a hard man to change. Tell him you disagree and he turns away. Show him facts or figures and he questions your sources. Appeal to logic and he fails to see your point."
-Leon Festinger
We have all those moments that test our patience. Recently, I managed to lock myself out of my home office- with the keys inside! In that moment, my mind raced between two choices: the comforting lie of "It's no big deal, I'll figure it out eventually," and the unpleasant truth of "I messed up, and I need a solution now."
Enter my wife, who didn't just offer practical help but also reminded me of the power of facing the truth head-on. While my initial reaction was to downplay the situation, her calm and direct approach helped me confront the reality- acknowledging the mistake without dwelling on it. We quickly found a solution, and in unlocking the door, I also unlocked a lesson.
This small experience also humbled me. It reminded me of a simple truth: the more I learn, the more I realize how much I don't know. Life surprises us with new lessons, often when we least expect them. I may have thought I had everything under control, but it's moments like these that reminded me there's always more to learn, more to grow, and more to discover!
The Takeaway:
Life often presents us with two paths: we can sugarcoat the situation to comfort ourselves, or we can face the uncomfortable truth and find growth. Whether it's locking yourself out or dealing with bigger life challenges, sometimes the truth, though unpleasant, leads to a faster and better resolution. And with every lesson learned, we're reminded of how much more there is to know.
Do you lean toward comforting lies or the `unpleasant truth?
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