Unlocking the Battle Within: A Journey to Transformation
Maty Mariko
??UAE Business Award Best Burnout Recovery Coach | MEA Excellence Award in Career Support Solutions 2024 |?? Eradicate burnout | Transform toxic relationships | Regain energy, feel whole again.??
In Jane's World: The Daily Grind
Let's dive into Jane's world: Imagine this - it's 6 AM, her blaring alarm yanks her from a restless sleep. She rushes through her morning routine: kids, breakfast, school drop off, overflowing email inbox.
The Unending Struggle
That’s just the start of the day. Dreading a day filled with endless meetings, tight deadlines, and a boss who constantly wants things done yesterday. Taking a moment to breathe? There's no time for that.
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The Autopilot Trap: How Stress Drives Your Autopilot
At home, it's the same story. Jane suggests going out for dinner as a simple escape for some much-needed respite, only to be met with, "Oh honey! Happy to stay home." It feels like hearing, "Cook for me again." Exhaustion, a lack of support, and the guilt of not managing become her daily companions. She's stuck on AUTOPILOT mode. Burnout is more than just feeling tired; it's like being trapped in a relentless struggle.
Jane's story sums up the life of many professionals.
Does your story sound like hers?
Now, let's explore how burnout affects your personal and work life.
At work, it's a never-ending cycle of tasks and demands, leaving you feeling overwhelmed.
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Your Mind's Role in the Battle Against Burnout
Maybe in your personal life, it's as if you've lost your spark, unable to connect or be truly present. Your mind plays a critical role in every aspect of your life.
It's like your personal superhero, always working to keep you safe.
It uses a mental GPS system called neuropathways, which are like the highways of your thoughts and actions.
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The Autopilot Trap:
Think of someone like Jane, who believed she had to juggle multiple roles - being an excellent mom, a loving partner, and a successful professional.
When Juggling Leads to Self-Neglect
Every time she put others before herself, her brain reinforced a self-neglect pattern, leading to ongoing burnout. When stress hit, her brain switched to autopilot, following the familiar path. This autopilot can be both a helpful ally and a troublesome foe in the battle against burnout.
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Why You Can't Just Ask for a Break
Think about it: Have you ever found yourself saying,
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"I wish I could catch a break?"
It's important to realize that you cannot simply ask for a break;
you need to take it.
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The Need for Change: It Starts with You
This is where the need for change comes in.
To truly beat burnout, address the underlying issues, especially the ones you have with yourself. It's not just about work, chores, and responsibilities;
it's about how you prioritize yourself and how you treat yourself.
Start by letting go of the need to please everyone, be a superhero,
and prove your worth.
Change is as simple as 1-2-3:
Step 1: Unearthing the Roots of Burnout
Step 2: Shifting Your Perspective
Step 3: Empowering Change Within
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What Really Matters: Happiness or Approval?
Ask yourself honestly:
How much do you want this change?
Are you more concerned with well-being and happiness,
or is it about seeking approval or being liked?
Your Decision, Your Life
Remember, change is just one decision away, and that decision is always and forever yours to make.
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Your Jane-like Story Deserves a Happy Ending
If your story is anything like Jane's story, and you feel like enough is enough, reach out for 1-on-1 support to break through the conscious and unconscious barriers holding you back so you can unpause and reactivate your genuine smile.