[be] unexpected

The most memorable experiences in life are often the ones that catch us off guard. To [be] unexpected means to embrace creativity and surprise, showing up in ways that defy expectations and spark joy. Whether it’s in your personal life or your work, choosing to [be] unexpected breaks the routine and invites excitement, innovation, and connection. It’s not just about doing something different—it’s about creating moments that stick with people long after they’ve passed.

In your personal life, being unexpected might mean surprising someone with an act of kindness or spontaneity that they didn’t see coming. At work, it could [be] presenting a creative solution that no one else considered, or leading a team in a way that reinvigorates their energy and passion. Being unexpected is a way to challenge the status quo, opening doors to new possibilities by disrupting the ordinary.

When we choose to [be] unexpected, we not only create memorable experiences for others, but we also keep ourselves engaged and curious. Routine has a way of dulling the senses, but surprise revives them. By embracing the unexpected, we invite curiosity, creativity, and excitement into our lives. The world becomes more vibrant, and we, in turn, become more dynamic leaders, friends, and partners.

Think back to the last time something unexpected caught your attention. How did it change your perception or inspire you? What opportunities do you have to surprise others today—at work, at home, or even in how you approach a problem you’ve been wrestling with? Don’t underestimate the power of the unexpected to transform both small moments and larger outcomes.

What would happen if you chose to surprise yourself and those around you? Let’s keep the momentum going as we explore the boldness it takes to break the mold. Next, we’ll explore how to [be] bold and step fearlessly into the unknown.

with delightful unpredictability, alfio