Understanding What You Don’t Like
Chander Shankar
Making a difference via coaching, mentoring and creating excellence.
Have you ever felt uneasy during a meeting or among friends when certain topics or jokes don’t sit well with you? Why do some things bother us more than others?
We all have likes and dislikes, and it's perfectly normal to have opinions. It's valuable to understand why certain things, people, attitudes, behaviors, or experiences affect us. Knowing these reasons can help us prepare for similar situations in the future and be aware of our triggers, preventing regretful actions.
An important step is recognizing our core values, such as love, respect, faith, care, and trust. When we prioritize these values and encounter behaviors that don’t align with them, it can make us uncomfortable.
Emotions connect our mind and body, and conflicting thoughts or feelings often trigger automatic behaviors. Without practice, these behaviors can be harmful in the long run. Building conscious discipline and positive behavior patterns can lead to a long, happy, and successful life.
By practicing alternative responses, we can control automatic behaviors, similar to how muscle memory works. The more we engage in desired behaviors, the better we handle unexpected situations.
Just five minutes a day of simple exercises can create a life of happiness and abundance.
The choice is ours.
Best Practices:
By incorporating these practices, you can enhance your well-being and personal growth.
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