Understanding Life as a Developmental Process so Move On

You are given the mind to think what is good for you and what should be maintained.

Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving.

In a love story, there will definitely be times when you experience the name of breaking up with a partner, many problems that can cause it all such as cheating, boredom, lost feelings, feeling less suitable and much more.

The Eight Stages of the Life Cycle

The eight stages of the life cycle are: infant, toddler, child, youth, young adult, parent, grandparent, and elder/traditional teacher.

For each stage, there are teachings about healthy development, traditional milestones, and the role that a person has within their family and community.?

Let alone in a married dating relationship, even a few years can experience what is called divorce, this can be said to be quite commonplace because it is difficult for 2 different thoughts to become one.

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Thank you?….Moving on, a difficult thing for us as someone who has loved sincerely, is so hard because it was decided by his partner, for me moving on is also something very difficult where I still like to stalk her social media and also there is still a sense of wanting to have a conversation with her.

But if I did that I would get a nostalgic feeling when I was alone with her, bring back memories of the past when all things were fine, a good feeling when I got a message from her, a feeling when I listened to her voice and everything I could get from her.

Do you want to add a word or two?

The journey will not be easy, everything needs a process but everything will return to normal, I guarantee, there are several ways that we can use to move on including:

Accept what happened and don’t beat yourself up.

Balance good and bad memories.

Stop finding out about his life from social media.

Stop questioning why your relationship ended.

Reflect on past experiences.

Avoid listening to sad songs.

Do your hobby as often as possible.

Do a variety of regular exercises.

Those are some ways to be able to move on from a partner or move on from anything.

There is always a beginning and an end, there are always meetings and separations, there are always good and bad, there are always more and less. We can’t control what doesn’t belong to us, don’t think it can also change someone’s nature because it’s very difficult, just understand what she is saying and respond accordingly.

I myself do some of the ways above in order to move on including doing hobbies that I like, doing things that can add value to ourselves such as starting to learn, starting sports and looking for side hustles as for what I also do is try to establish a relationship with someone new.

Your Comments……

It’s just my way, you don’t have to follow it.

Happiness and freedom begin with a clear understanding of one principle. That is, what is in your control and what is not?

We just follow what our partner says because we believe it’s the best and believe that that’s true, but we don’t think that it harms us and those closest to us.

There are times when we really love that person to the point that we don’t care about the boundaries that we have to keep for ourselves even for friends.

Now I believe that love is blind, not only to the physical but also to the surroundings, you will forget who you are because you are too preoccupied with your partner, you will forget your friends because your partner may limit who can contact you and meet you, all of this is an example of how love can blind you to everything.

I understand why that can happen, we don’t want to disappoint our partner, but we also don’t want him to be concerned about what we are doing.

Sometimes we are forced to choose whether we want to maintain a relationship with our partner or avoid friends.

Don’t worry, not all couples are like that, I’m sure there are many other couples who can relate to our situation.

All of the above explanations can happen to anyone, regardless of gender . As a result, nothing lasts forever and everything has advantages and disadvantages, be grateful if you have a partner who understands you and what you have built and does not try to destroy it.

Even so, not all restraint is bad, it is usually done to protect the relationship from external situations that will interfere with their relationship, which is a good thing, after all, who doesn’t want a relationship to last?

I believe everyone desires this, and the method will differ for each pair, we cannot average it.

Understand your partner, be the first to listen to his story, his complaints, and all his concerns, and discover what he truly desires. Again, it’s unique to each pair, you can’t beat it evenly.

We, as people who know everything, hope you don’t play your partner in this manner. Sometimes you don’t understand why she’s silent, but it’s just so you don’t get hurt by her words.

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