Understanding The Concept Of Dommes

My first introduced to the concept of Dommes formally about three years ago. I knew the word from all the documentaries, but in the modern world, it has progressed to have its meaning. Anyone who studies words knows that their meaning changes with the fluctuation of society. A full-time slave differs from play slaves in what they desire from a relationship. Dommes are a concept that part-time players rarely encounter. When people think of a dominant Submissive relationship, they often think of the Hollywood version. A true submissive desires a loving Domme who demands a high degree of worship.

The slave initially was without a full-time Domme. He felt lost in the club scene of being used by several people for their pleasure. Submissive desires to be used for a dominants leisure, but the long term craves the emotional bond. Over a year, we delved into the BDSM club scene that he was trapped. Through many different discussions, we began to work on what he desired from a dominant woman. The slave had been masked and caged by several women over the years. Our discussions of the difference between a dominant woman and a Domme taught me things about myself. He wanted to be part of a household of either one woman or several, and what he was willing to share their attention he wanted to be able to work towards specific and more intense goals with time.

Our conversations guided him to establish a relationship with two dominant women, though one was closer to submissive. This relationship was fleeting, but it gave him a glimpse of being under the control of a pure Domme. After the COVID shutdown of his area life presented an opportunity for a true one on one relationship. Unfortunately, our conversations have taken a hiatus due to the complications of life. 

A Domme is a woman who desires a full-time live-in slave. This BDSM can be a sexual relationship, but that is not a necessity—a full-time submissive gains pleasure from servitude with the sexual release a special treat. There is a difference between men and women's submission. Women tend to crave a higher degree of cuddle time, wherein men lean towards harsher treatment. The difference between a play dominant woman and a Domme lies in what relationship she craves. For my friend, he wanted a Domme that set increased levels of demand. He desired to be challenged until each level achieved. 

A Domme can be sadistic or sensual in her style of domination, and a submissive will be attracted to that style. This relationship is not about abuse or force; it is about developing a deeper understanding of what each person wants. Not all dominant women want to be Dommes; the degree of commitment is significant. Many submissives only wish to be play partners; they want to have their freedom from daily interaction. The interaction of a Domme is a concept that goes back to Roman slavery. A woman who runs a household that is strict with those under her control. 

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