Unconventional Life may also be Messy Life

Nine days after moving to our tiny house full time, our rainwater catchment tank ran out of water. The timing was ironically fortunate. We had planned to clean it as a step toward a more permanent water system. So in the tank I went on Monday morning before my 12:30 meeting.

On this day we were deeply grateful for the well that fills the tank when the rainwater runs out.

In the West, water is precious and not taken for granted. It is also a resource that people share. As soon as I told my neighbor, who also collects rainwater, she offered some of her modest reserves. I hear so many stories of people getting water from neighbors or strangers when they first arrive here.?

Sharing within community, like scrubbing gunky water tanks, can be messy. There isn’t a currency of exchange when sharing resources like water, home grown produce or the sweat of digging post holes. How do you know when you are getting your fair share? How do you know if the other person will give back when you need help?

Perhaps the messiness of living a bit outside of convention allows us to build a deeper trust of both the people and our resources. Perhaps we come to know each other and the earth that sustains us in a more committed way. Perhaps some interdependence feels good. But only if we are up for a bit of challenge and vulnerability.?

If you feel isolated or unchallenged in your status quo, take a peek at my Unconventional Values Quiz. Are you a Freedom Seeker, Security Guardian, Adventure Enthusiast or Community Builder. Find out here .