It Is Unbearable Until You Think It Is Unbearable

Yes! As how the statement says the toughest situations whatever you’re facing is unbearable to you only because you think it is unbearable!

You may have lot of issues to handle like in your Family, Friends, Office, etc. But never forget that you’re not the only person who is living this kind of life of wrecked & wretched but there are so many people who have the similar problems as yours or more than yours, but what you should know is: In this world of humanity no one has few problems or more problems but has “a problem”, the way how we look at those with the view of Small or Big is the major trigger here.

Don’t live a life thinking “I’ve so many problems I don’t know how to come out from this, why only I have this kind of problems when everyone seems to be happy ?” No! This is not the way how you have to live. Who knows, the person sitting next to you (or) your neighbor (or) your colleague may have so many issues going on in their lives more than you and they may never show it on their faces or don’t share with anyone.

However, much of your life may get crooked but never lose hope and don’t ever give up on your goals even when there doesn’t seem to be any road going on in front of you for now, but sooner or later only because of your aspiration towards your goal you will build your own road to move forward to reach your destination which may not happen in a prescribed time but surely before you leave the world or before you give up.

So the only thing what we need to learn is never think that your struggles are unbearable to you which is only seemed in that way because of your thoughts & presumptions, if you think positive the positivity will surround you even with numerous problems on your back. Show your composure of being strong & stable, but never show yourself as a failure in front of your struggles or stirrers who back-stabs you to make you fall down.

“Be brave” saying this word may be very simple for others but for those who is bearing a problem it is a very difficult word to grasp, even though show people that you’ve that bravery in you to have a big smile on your face with all the pain inside, because you’re not living this life to satisfy some other person but for yourself and for your creator to make him feel proud of you.

I’ve seen number of people who stopped moving forward in their lives only because of a simple thought; thinking they have troubles what none has, which is completely wrong and only a one’s imagination. Even for me I was in that kind of stage in my life thinking “I can’t overcome my problems”, “I deserve to be sad”, “No one are supporting me” etc., but I was totally wrong at that moment, later I got to know the will of mine to achieve my dreams is more greater than my difficulties, even with or without anyone’s support in my life I want to Overcome all my failures & difficulties to gain my true self of happiness.

The Major thing what I got to know is “Never show yourself low or weak in front of others” But Learn all the positivism from each and every person who make a visit in your life which may help you grow yourself stating “Be your Own Mentor of your Own Life”

And by your own mentorship on yourself, let others get admired by you only by looking at you that how strong you are standing in your troubles without stumbling, even those who tormented you should get jealous of you & think “I wish I would've been good with her/him in the past”.

Just try to understand this quote which says "You can't control every situation and its outcome, but you can surely control your attitude to deal with every situation." As explained, have a unique kind of attitude towards your situations but not hatred or sadness.

And Lastly, Never forget to remember that every struggle of yours in your life might become a story for someone who is facing a same situation in their life to move forward from it. Have no fear except the overwhelming faith in yourself and in your creator to win all your battles even as a single warrior.

Note: Never see any of your trouble with a magnifier which may look bigger only to your eyes but see it as simple as possible to overcome it & to win over it.

This is dedicated to every single person who is facing obstacles in their life..! Hope It is worth writing..! :)