The Ultimate Measure of Success Comes Down to a Few Simple Words

A new measure of success not defined by material possessions, achievements, or wealth.

What's the greatest measure of success? That's the million-dollar question, but I believe I have an answer worth more than gold.

Success can sometimes feel like that elusive butterfly that you're trying to catch but keeps fluttering just out of reach. It certainly?isn't a one-size-fits-all concept. But defining?what success means to you is a crucial first step toward your journey.

Measuring your success

So, what's the greatest measure of success? In few words, your success depends on the cycle of caring. When you practice carekindness, and generosity throughout life, it comes back to you ten fold.

Certainly not what you'd think, as success is often associated with?materialism, crushing the competition, conquering the mountain, and checking off one achievement after another.

Wealth and accolades one may accumulate throughout one's lifetime are inconsequential if one lacks caring for others. Material success may bring fame and recognition but cannot fill the void left by the absence of care through genuine human connection.

I propose instead that success be defined by the currency of caring.?

The currency of caring?

As human workers, we all have an innate desire to feel cared for, appreciated, and loved for what we do and contribute. However, many of us mistakenly?fall into the trap of thinking that money can solve our problems, fix our relationships, and repair broken systems.

The more we spread our care and kindness to others, unconditionally (without expecting anything in return), the more we benefit and grow from our acts of compassion. Indeed, this defies conventional wisdom for success and happiness.

By spreading care and kindness to others -- at home, at work, and in our communities -- we cultivate an environment where caring?can flourish. The act of caring unconditionally creates a ripple effect, touching the lives of those around us and ultimately coming back to enrich our own lives.?

As we grow older, neither the size of our bank accounts nor the recognition we receive for checking off all the boxes will bring us contentment. Instead, what matters most is the assurance that we have made a positive impact on the lives of others and that we are genuinely loved and appreciated in return for our acts of kindness and generosity. It's the feeling of satisfaction that arises from knowing that your standing-room-only funeral will be attended by scores of?individuals you have touched--people who will pay their respects and honor you for your goodness and kindness.

As Andy Grammer, the?multi-platinum recording artist,?sings: "I don't wanna be 85, singing Oh, no, I think I missed it, I was chasing money I don't wanna be 85, singing Oh, no, I got a big house, but my heart is hurting me."

When you're coming to the end of your journey and are about to "hang up your cleats," remember this:?success should not be solely defined by external achievements but rather by the depth of your relationships and the impact you have on the lives of others. This is the true essence of success and fulfillment.

by: Marcel Schwantes