(trying to) Make My Mark

For the first time I committed to make the effort to write and publish a piece of original long form content on the LinkedIn Platform. I'd love to hear feedback from the Community as to whether you find it of value, if you'd like to read more of this style of content and if so, other potential topics of interest.

Over the weekend, #TeamRBC (shout out to Helen, Zach, Lisa, Graham, Anika, Daniel, Paul, Awaad & more) had the pleasure of being part of the 2019 DECA U Provincials at The Sheraton Center Hotel in Toronto. Once again RBC Insurance was a key Sponsor and proud supporter (thank you Catherine Bishop and Team!) with the theme of this years event being #MakeYourMark. DECA U Ontario President (and fabulous former RBC Innovation Team Member) Michele Duong invited me to be the keynote speaker and to share some of my experiences and my journey to (hopefully) inspire the 1,200 + university students attending.

DECA U Ontario is Canada's largest undergraduate association, who proudly holds the nation's largest undergraduate conference. DECA U has created a platform for students to complete, network, and develop their professional skills by participating in a series of case competitions, workshops, and conferences.

So, what did I talk about?

a (little) bit about me

(This is me with my BFF Neil)

I talked about who I am and what I do (if you're reading this on LinkedIn, I'm making an assumption that you know this and I'm not going to regurgitate my professional bio). How I got here and how I'm trying to Make My Mark. 

I then spent time talking about some tips, tricks, words of (potential) wisdom that I wish I had known/believed/listened to when i was starting out my career.

I also shared some thoughts on how everyone can try to make their own mark. Much like so many things in life, making your mark isn't always easy and is completely personal, unique and different for each and every one of us. Not better or worse. Just different.

(trying to) make my mark

Over the course of my career, I have had the privilege and pleasure of being featured in a range of print and digital publications (including Toronto's very own BetaKit). I've been interviewed on live TV (not easy or fun for me) and been a Judge and Presenter at numerous awards ceremonies and galas. I also get the opportunity to speak at a range of fantastic Industry events and even more fantastic Community events like the 2019 DECA U Provincials.

(Shameless plug #1. I am in fact speaking at 'A taste of Innovation' the first RBC FutureMakers event of 2019 on Monday January 28. And yes, I am leaning on a taxi and holding a mobile phone in that photo. Leaders from across the Canadian Innovation ecosystem will be discussing innovation in the fields of financial services, healthcare, education and food. These are great community and knowledge sharing focused events, I legitimately highly recommend and endorse them.)

But why am I telling you/showing you this? Apart from maybe making my dear mother proud (Hi Sheila), all of this great coverage, this publicity, these fantastic opportunities (shout out to all the PR & Comms professionals) have enabled me to create a public brand as a Global Technology Leader. An Agent of Change and Transformation.

And I'm leveraging that brand, to try and Make My Mark.

something that’s (very) important or meaningful

For me, Making My Mark is about doing something (or somethings) that are very important and meaningful. Important and meaningful to me. And to society.

Three areas that I pride myself on being a very loud and proud advocate of are:

Women in Leadership and Women in Technology – may the best (wo) man win.

Being raised primarily by my Mother and my two older sisters, I've been incredibly lucky to have been surrounded by strong female role models my whole life. My biggest mentors/sponsors/champions to date have been women (I'll dive deeper into that later) and I'm immensely proud that some of my closest friends, peers and teammates at RBC are strong amazing women (props Alison, Simona, Lara, Devon, Nora, Shohreh, Jess, Anika and many more)!

But over the years, I've seen some (lots) of the ridiculous bias, absurd barriers and horrendous obstacles women face in certain industries like Technology and as they try to move into senior leadership positions.

Leveraging that public brand and using my (pretty damn loud) voice, I am trying to strongly encourage, publicly support and formally sponsor more women. In Leadership roles. And in the field of Technology.

Early talent – investing in my, your, our future.

This is me, paying it forward (we'll dive deeper into that later) and also selfishly wanting to play a role investing in the future leaders of this great nation (and others) we call home. In the not so distant future, as my career comes to an end and my little one starts his, I want to be able to look at myself in the mirror and know that i did as much I could to support those future leaders as they rise to the occasion. Many of whom will have had support from terrific organizations like DECA U and RBC.

Diversity and Inclusivity – this is table stakes. Doing what’s right, for everyone.

To me, this sits right alongside saying Please and Thank you. Teams. Companies. Communities. Humanity. Are significantly better when they are Diverse and Inclusive.

“Inclusion is simply the best way to attract the right talent and to supercharge innovation in your organization. We've done a lot of great work here, but to continue moving forward, we need to be bolder. That means challenging others and challenging ourselves to build a culture that is rich in perspectives. And it means speaking honestly with our colleagues and clients to speak up for what's right.” - The Desk of Dave McKay (President & Chief Executive Officer, RBC

A big part of why I'm incredibly loud and proud of being part of Team RBC is because across the Enterprise and especially within where i work (Technology & Operations), the most senior leaders, the support functions, the people mangers, empower and encourage RBC'ers to champion and invest in these areas. To be true agents of change and transformation. Yes, there is still a ton of work that needs to be done, but i am confident we are heading in the right direction and starting to move at pace and with real conviction.

Now onto those tips, tricks and words of (potential) wisdom.

if I could turn back time (like cher)

talent + passion = success (happiness)

My dear cousin Yen sat me down at a steakhouse in KL, Malaysia when I was in my early to mid twenties and talked to me about this idea. If you focus on finding an opportunity that combines skills/tasks that you're really good at, within an industry/field/area that you/'re deeply passionate or excited about, you've got a pretty damn good recipe for setting yourself up for success.

So for me, that was roles that involved dealing with people and being focused on technology. Belinda (you'll hear more about her later) gave me my first real start as a Junior Sales Rep selling media into the Eastern European emerging markets. Since then, I've remained focused on internal and external customer facing roles in Digital, Mobile, Payments, FinTech and Banking IT.

He also told me to stop being a jerk to my little brother. Sorry bro.

build (maintain, upgrade) your brand

I talked about it before, take what you're passionate about, mix in your talent/skills and build a brand. LinkedIn. Twitter. A Blog. Your own Startup. The Community. Your Alma Matter. These all can help establish, define, stress test and amplify your brand. Don't spend forever on it, because trust me, it will change, it will evolve, just like you will.

network. network. (breathe) network

Two truths in my experience.

Success, however you may define it, is a combination of what you know AND who you know.

And almost everybody (and I mean everybody) finds networking uncomfortable, myself included. Just because they don't necessarily show it, doesn't mean they aren't just as nervous and uncomfortable as you are. Sometimes they (me) even bring along friends and colleagues for support (thanks Team). Remember this the next time you put on a name tag and walk into a crowded room.

(try to) be open, honest & direct

It took me a long time, sadly maybe too long to realize that I was a much better when I was trying to be open, honest and direct. Especially in the work environment. Don't get me wrong, there is a time and a place for everything. Always be professional and never make it personal. But if I'm being open, honest and direct with you all right now, this approach as part of my brand has paid big dividends over the course of my career so far.

mistakes (like bad haircuts) are inevitable

I've made many mistakes, more than my fair share. I've also had many bad haircuts (including a flattop circa 1995). When I look back at so many of these mistakes, they have helped shape who I am, where I've been and where i want to go. Embrace these mistakes. Learn from these mistakes. I am telling you, these mistakes are inevitable and unavoidable.

(always) pay it forward

Don't ever get to big for your own boots. Don't ever forget where you came from. Don't forget to pay it forward.

Sounds simple, but it's easily forgotten when life gets busy. I've been in the same or very similar situations as many young students/professionals. And I was truly blessed to have a handful of people (women!) early in my career who took the time to chat with me. To take a chance on me. To teach me. To invest in me. And to champion me. Without them and their support, I do not believe i would be in the position I am today. Genuinely. And because of that, I commit to paying it forward every single day!

Thank you and much love, Belinda, Kylie, Aline and Beverley.

the world is not enough (for some)

Success. Awards. Trophies. Titles. Bonus Cheques.

What you want will evolve. It will change. They can haunt you. They can taunt you. At some stage and in some circumstances, you'll learn that no matter how many hours in a day you work (even 25), or how many wins you notch up, or how big or long your title is, it still won't satisfy that thirst.

Recognize this. Understand this. Temper this. Harness this.

 (way easier said than done) keep calm & carry on

Finishing school and starting your career is tough. Fact.

Much like mistakes, you will face rejection. It sucks.

Keep calm and carry on.

My family immigrated from Malaysia to Australia, I went to some good (but not always the most highly regarded) schools and spent the first few years after university trying to get a good job at a great company, or a great job at a good company. If you'd asked me when I was ~25 if I thought I would work for Silicon Valley tech companies, travel the world for business, lead some amazing teams, deliver and launch some wicked products, speak at conferences, be in the news, on TV etc, I'm certain I would have looked you right in the eyes, grinned and said yes.

And I would have been 100% lying to you, and I would have been lying to me. I certainly wasn't open and honest.

Your career, much your life, is a marathon, not a sprint. You've got to learn to keep calm. You've got to learn to dust yourself off. And you've got learn to carry on. 

leverage technology (and shameless plug #2)

A tool that certainly was not available when I was graduating university is Prepped.

Built with love by the amazing RBC Ventures Team, Prepped helps young Canadians feel more prepared and confident, and learn the proven science to successful job searches.

Overwhelmingly, they heard that students feel ill-prepared to enter the job search market and that they don’t know how to effectively present themselves to employers.

Designed by HR experts and based on job search science, Prepped breaks down the job search into learning modules, short videos and simple exercises.

Let's talk job search science!

People who are taught job search skills, and how to present themselves well in interviews and networking, are 3 X more likely to get a job!

People who ask friends and family for help and leverage their peer networks for help and advice are 4 X more likely to get a job!

The Prepped Team’s vision is to help empower youth and thrive in their careers - thank you Julia, Laura and Team.

Invest in yourself and your future. Go to fullyprepped.ca 

*stay gold ponyboy ((s) and girls)

(*The Outsiders. read the book and watch the movie)

I've joked my whole life about being a Small Town Asian Boy, just trying to make a buck. It probably should have been the title of this last piece or my yet to be written memoirs.

But all jokes aside, I want you to know and I want you to believe, that if this small town Asian boy (who just wanted to make a buck) can achieve what he's been able to achieve in the first half of a career, that every single person reading this, can do the same and even more. You can Make A Mark.

You could be a senior executive, a industry leader, an entrepreneur, a community builder, a partner, a parent, an educator, an agent of change and a champion of transformation. You could be them all!

That could be you making your mark. And that's totally awesome.

But those achievements can also help you find what's even more meaningful and important to you. And if it does. Go do it. Whatever it is. Make Your Mark on this life and the next.

If you got this far, my sincere thanks for taking the time. I do genuinely hope there was a small nugget of gold or two somewhere in the above. I'd love your feedback and Stay Gold.

t: @alexanderpeh w: alexanderpeh.com

I did. True story.

*The views and opinions expressed are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of RBC.