The Truth in the Mirror: Celebrating Life’s Real Gifts
Reshma Mahapatra MCMI ChMC
Associate Partner | UKI IBM Ambassador | UKOUG Executive Board Member for GenAI and Innovation
First and foremost, I want to extend a heartfelt thank you to everyone who took the time to reach out with birthday wishes, whether through phone calls, texts, emails, or messages here on LinkedIn. Your kind words and thoughtful gestures truly made my day special, and I’m deeply grateful for the warmth and support from this amazing community.
This past weekend, I celebrated another year of life—a moment that always brings a flood of emotions, reflections, and gratitude. Birthdays have a unique way of pulling us out of the daily grind and giving us a moment to pause, to look around, and to appreciate the people who truly matter. For me, this birthday was a powerful reminder of something I’ve always known but sometimes forget: in the end, it’s family that stands by you, lifting you up when the world feels heavy.
Chasing Shadows
In our daily lives, it’s easy to get caught up in the race—chasing after success, approval, love, and material gains. We strive to achieve, to impress, to gather things that, in the grand scheme, may not hold as much value as we think. I’ve had moments in life where everything seemed to fall apart, where the things I had been chasing slipped through my fingers. It’s in those moments of despair that I learned a vital truth: what truly sustains us is not the pursuit of external rewards but the love we have for ourselves and the support of those who genuinely care for us.
The Power of Self-Love
Loving yourself isn’t just a buzzword—it’s a necessity. When we love ourselves, we create a foundation of strength and resilience that helps us weather life’s inevitable storms. It’s about recognising your worth, understanding that you are deserving of love and respect, and treating yourself with the same kindness and compassion that you extend to others.
This isn’t always easy. There are days when self-doubt creeps in, when the weight of unmet expectations drags us down. But in those moments, it’s essential to turn inward, to remind yourself that you are enough, just as you are. I know it's not easy but we do need to climb up.
?Spiritual Anchors and the Power of Truth?
During my most challenging times, I’ve found solace in a belief that goes beyond the tangible—a belief in a higher power, in karma, and in the idea that what we put into the world eventually comes back to us. This spiritual inclination has been my anchor, keeping me steady when everything else feels uncertain.
In a world where lies and deceit can often seem like the easier path, choosing truth requires courage. But it’s truth that ultimately brings peace. Being truthful with yourself and others isn’t just about honesty; it’s about living in alignment with your values, about not compromising who you are for the sake of temporary gains. Karma, I believe, sees all, and it has a way of ensuring that what you give is what you get.
Family: The Ultimate Rescue Team
This birthday reminded me that, no matter how far we wander in search of meaning or success, it’s our family—whether by blood or by bond—that rescues us when we’re lost. They are the ones who see us at our best and our worst, who stand by us not for what we’ve achieved but for who we are.
Family reminds us that we are loved, that we are important, and that we have a place in this world that is irreplaceable. It’s easy to take this for granted, but moments of celebration, like birthdays, are perfect reminders of how truly blessed we are to have them in our lives.
Living with Purpose and Truth
As I step into this new year of life, I do so with a renewed commitment to live with purpose, to love myself unconditionally. I’ll continue to chase my dreams, but I’ll do so with the understanding that success isn’t measured by what I accumulate but by the love I share, the truth I live by, and the people I hold close.
In the end, life’s real gifts are not the things we chase but the things we nurture—our relationships, our integrity, and our belief in something greater than ourselves.
So, here’s to another year of living with intention, embracing the truth, and cherishing the people who make life truly worthwhile. Welcome to the new chapter.
#MondayMotivation #SelfLove #FamilyFirst #SpiritualGrowth #LiveYourTruth
Managing Consultant at IBM Consulting
2 个月Thank you for sharing an authentic reflection on your journey. Family and loved ones are most important. Wishing you a great year ahead filled with special moments that you can share with your family. Happy Birthday again????
A heartfelt and warming read. Thank you.