“Trust one who has tried.”

What criteria do you use to determine someone’s trustworthiness?

Select a particular person from your professional or personal community. Using the following questions, rate them on a scale of one to four, with four being high:

THIS INDIVIDUAL:

• Is consistent and dependable
• Is more focused on others than self
• Is a good listener
• Keeps personal confidences and avoids gossip
• Shows genuine care for others
• Exhibits honesty and integrity
• Is a win-win, consensus builder

Also ask yourself if this person walks their talk, even in the face of obstacles and challenges.

EXERCISE:

How would you rate yourself – or better yet – how would others rate you on the same trustworthiness scale? How can you always demonstrate yourself as one who would not ask others to do something you hadn’t tried yourself?

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Today's quote from Virgil, ancient Roman poet of the Augustan Period