|Trust Again|

I want to talk about experience of being disappointed multiple times which destroy trust in life. We are born to be decent. Don’t need to be good or just bad. “Decent.” Our reality is formed by experience around us after seeds of belief and values planted through childhood perception and demonstration of parents. When we think about doing something, we tell ourselves deep down inside that we want to make it best although we pretend to tell ourselves that we wanted only good. No. We are lying to ourselves. We just hope it best. Pure defense mechanism.

Once we hope the best unpropotionally to degree of effort by all means, that is when disappointment comes if it fails. We will be extremely delightful once it is more than what it is expected. Common sense.

Imagine if the same ill fated situations keep happening repeatedly, how our reality will be created through those experiences? People lose trust in everything around or the worst to themselves. Blockchain was created because life has demonstrated that trust is hard to find in people. It is a chain of proven points, confirmed by multiple parties and decide to accept by ourselves.

We want to change it? Creating experience through some small things in life but constant. Celebrating the mini milestone of success if it is there. Make ourselves understand of the failure and seriously act on it. Then people see effort and take it positively. All theses positivities will form constructive experience to a person. All these new experiences will rebuild trust of a person. Again.

Keep doing. Keep repeating till trust surface in our mind.