In the Trenches – Post 1 – The Arena

As I currently sit in ‘The Trenches’ of life I’ve been reflecting.?

BTW just a few caveats and disclaimers before you continue to read (to save some of you some anguish and pain).??My grammar is not the best but my message is clear.??Everything I write is from my own personal experience,??but I do know that universally we share a lot of common misunderstandings and beliefs.??In all I write it is my own very honest personal experience, my learnings and how I moved forward (BTW I felt most my life I was going around in circles while going mad).??Currently I am sitting in ‘The Trenches’ the specifics of which I am not going to share at the moment for fear some of you may think I’ve lost my mind! I can assure you I haven’t but all will be revealed over the next few weeks.?

If what I post resonates with you then please:

1.????????????Know that this is a safe space, the start of a beautiful community, a community of empowerment, support, kindness and lots of fun.??This is the very beginning of something magic – join in for the journey.?

2.???????????Do not comment on the post, please share it, you just never know who may read it and the difference it could make.??Your support would be greatly appreciated with a ‘like’ instead.?

3.???????????Ask a questions, please do.??If you are in the trenches like me then I would encourage you to post your question on the post, one thing I can guarantee is that if you have questions then so many others do too but if you wish please feel free to message me privately.??If I can help, I will share my insights and learnings and if I can’t I will find the help – that’s my promise.?

4.?????????If something I write causes a negative reaction/emotion take some time out.??Get a pen and paper and start to write, ask yourself why but please be kind to yourself as you do, you may be surprised what you learn.??

My reason for starting this is very simple, to help you! If like me you are in The Trenches, whether that is financially in a situation you don’t want to be in, in a relationship that isn’t working,??in a job you hate but can’t see any alternative, estranged from your family, struggle to get out of bed in the morning, feel like you’re a crap parent, questioning your place in this world, looking at others and wondering where are you going wrong? then hang in there, I’m right there with you, sharing my journey, helping you to understand a little more, hopefully inspiring you to take some action but most importantly sharing the struggles, the wins and the learnings together.

I will be sharing my challenges and learnings each week as I give you the opportunity to get to know me a little more.??I will share the books and podcasts that gave me hope in those moments when I really struggled.??I will be posting each Monday morning at 9am and in each post will be tools and action items for you to do with me, action that I promise if you take will create change, how much is up to you.??

I have a very powerful exercise for you to do that will kick start everything.??If you wish me to send it to you then please email me at?[email protected].??Please know that I will not be retaining your email address and will be just be sending you this document.??(we all have enough emails).?

I will be showing you how life is happening for you and not too you and empowering you to get out of your own way as I am getting out of mine! Trust me when I tell you If I can change my life then anyone can.??

#leadership #vulverability #inthetrenches #youvegotthis #tellyourstory