A special tranformation period of my life's journey...

Present joyful journey may have number of painful experiences in the past!! Today as usual, when I am working with my flow, suddenly I remembered one of “my life’s painful period and; how I could practically come out of that phase”. Felt like sharing this over here.It was in the year 2019, in March, I came up with the decision of “revamping my career”. Then I am a mother of a 11 month kid. As for my pregnancy issues and baby care, took a pause with my career; when my baby is approaching his first birthday, thought to restart…

When I decided this, I was completely clueless on how to proceed with job trails and set up a path. It is certainly, not an easy task for me to get back on the track. On one side, I can’t skip mom duties and family responsibilities; on the other side, I used to face intense humiliations from my family members for not making a career. On facing these challenges , I need to focus on getting into a job. I tried to utilize every possible opportunity but not used to get the result. It used to hurt me a lot, inspite of working beyond ?my physical and mental health, outcomes were not reaching upto the mark. Due to all the above things, I used to lost confidence on self. Negativity used to predominate positivity. Almost this period continued for an year.

Nonethelessly, I never gave up with myself. I used to constantly ask my myself, “how can I come out of all these by making up a unique path?” then it’s in 2020 March, one night when I am making my son to sleep, suddenly some valuable words triggered my mind. The words of ?Dr.A.P.J Abul Kalam Sir, ”If you are not finding positivity and feel motivated to work with your aims, help someone else in reaching out with their aims, this in-turn will up-lift you to reach your destination”.?On remembering these words, I saw a smile on my face after one year. Now I could clearly understand that rather than trying for a career first ,I need to develop positive reflections on self without which I can’t step from that scenario to make up a career opportunity.

I started wondering on how to help someone with similar kind of problem. There should be a starting point which should first make inner-self to transform from negative self-reflection to positive attitude by contemplating with positive affirmations. For doing this I thought that the best way to is to express the knowledge on positivity on LinkedIn posts. Initially I used to select very specific posts that too,only 3 posts which used to give me enough space to share my knowledge on positivity. In these comments I used to put my every piece of knowledge I have towards that particular post. When I started writing I started feeling comfortable and secure with myself. With in 3 months, I could fully get charged with positivity. On reaching this particular point only I could get proper idea on doing self-analysis in a pragmatic way where I could identify my set-backs clearly. On working with them, I could soon resolve the issues. By 6 months i. e., in December,2020 , I could start a career as a lecturer in a polytechnic college. In parallel with this, I could also get opportunity to help number of persons in making them gain positive attitude and win with their aims, and this is continuing till date. From the day of restarting with my career to this day, I am running relentlessly towards my aims with full levels of joy irrespective of the challenges.

Nature throws challenges on everyone in their life’s journey. Irrespective of all the pain,hurdles, humiliations ,if we constantly stick with positivity, and look every situation with respective to positive perspective, and move forward with the intention of reaching our aims and aspirations one day we can certainly reach the deserving destination.

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