Toxic relationships are not welcome here

We all know people who are suffering in their toxic relationship with their bf/gf or spouses but they continue to be on that relationship for whatever reasons. By definition, a toxic relationship is a relationship characterized by behaviors on the part of the toxic partner that are emotionally and, not infrequently, physically damaging to their partner. Here are some signals to help you recognize a toxic relationship, like when it is all take, no give. Any relationship in which you experience withdrawals of energy without deposits will leave you in the negative.

Are you feeling drained? if, instead of feeling happy and productive, you're always mentally, emotionally, and even physically drained, it's time to re-evaluate. There is always a lack of trust. A relationship without trust is like a car without gas: You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere. The whole atmosphere is hostile. Constant fits of anger is a sure sign of an unhealthy relationship. You should never be around hostility because it makes you feel unsafe.

If one is occupied with imbalance. A one-sided relationship can never run smoothly. Constant judgment on your behaviour. In judgmental relationships, criticism is not intended to be helpful but rather to belittle. Persistent unreliability and tremendous vulnerability. Mutual reliability is important to building trust and is at the core of any good relationship.

Nonstop narcissism to show that you are nobody. If the other party's interest in the relationship is really just a reflection of him or herself, it's impossible to achieve any kind of balance. Often loaded with negative energy. It's almost impossible for anything positive to come out of a relationship filled with negativity. Complete lack of communication. Without communication, there is no relationship. Period.

I think an unhealthy relationship is when a couple hardly ever does anything together.It’s also when one does things the other likes,but nothing is done with them. It's also easy to see when one begins to talk down to the other like they aren't an equal. This is really bad when it's done in front of family and especially their kids. It can be seen easily when one makes more money than the other and has not let it matter in the past,but begins to use it as “power" over the money who earns less.

It's not seen by others but a relationship is doomed when one partner refuses or makes excuses to not make love to the other.When this happens the partner who is refused sex needs to pay attention to how the other partner seems to be attached to their cell phone, when calls or texts are received the leave the room to answer, when they are texting and reading messages in the middle of the night.It's also easily noticed when this is happening that one partner suddenly needs to be somewhere else, especially after one of the calls or texts.

Moreover, if a partner has been overweight for years and can't or won't put any effort into losing excess weight,suddenly begins to lose weight and keep it off. When you know your partner is lying to you more and you think back to other lies they've told you in the past.When they seem fine one minute then blow up on you the next. It's also easy to see when one partner shows no pictures or words that you exist on their Social media. When one partner isn't involved in household decisions, if asked their opinion, ideas or input is never used.

You start feeling bad for doing things on your own time, because you feel like you have to be their for your partner all the time where you come to a point where your giving everything to your partner and your partner is not reciprocating even by a 50%. If a relationship stops bringing joy, and instead consistently makes you feel sad, angry, anxious and drained..chances are its toxic. You find yourself becoming envious of happy couples. negative shifts in your mental health, personality or self-esteem are all red flags and when you feel like you cant openly talk about the issues bothering you in a relationship because of you might trigger your partners ego.. then that's a red flag.

At first they will seem charmingly sweet and act like they actual care about you. Then after an extended period of time, they will start to become very controlling and manipulative. Since they are toxic, you become toxic when you start yelling, screaming and name calling. If you are specifically talking about romantic/love/sex relationships, then, actually no. Some have had three what you could consider “serious” romantic relationships, and of those three the one he or she in currently is not toxic and shows no signs of becoming so. The prior two were also not toxic and did not result in ex-based drama when they were concluded. While some have never had a bad casual fling, and any longer-term trysts were basically light and fun. But then you would have to be really serious about a relationship before you say yes. Cheers!