Top 10

I’ve always been a “Top Ten” kind of guy. Whether it’s casually ranking movies, debating the best restaurants, or recounting funny moments from the zoo, I’ve found that lists are a fun way to frame the world around us. When I became a dad, I knew I wanted to pass this habit on to my kids. So, every night before bed, I tuck them in and ask, “What are your top ten favorite things from today?”

At first, I guided them through it, helping them remember the little moments—the good, the funny, and the meaningful. By the time we reached number ten, they’d end the day feeling grateful, a sense of appreciation spilling over. But then, something amazing happened.

One day at lunch, my five-year-old looked up at me and said, “Dad, this is totally going to be in my Top Ten!”? That’s when it hit me. This wasn’t just a bedtime exercise—it was rewiring how they saw the world. Throughout their day, they were searching for moments to celebrate, to savor, and to cherish.

It’s easy to let negativity creep in when life doesn’t go as planned. But when you’re actively hunting for your “Top Ten,” the lens shifts. Gratitude takes center stage.

We’ve even added a twist to the tradition. I now challenge my kids (and myself) with this question: “If someone else was making a Top Ten list today, would you be on it?” Think about that. How can you impact someone’s day so profoundly that you’d make their highlight reel?

Here’s my challenge: How many “Top 10” lists can you crash? Forget Billboard or the NCAA rankings—you’re probably not making those. But you can absolutely dominate the?Top 10 Neighbors Who Don’t Let My Dog Escape?or the?Top 10 People Who Actually Text Back?lists. Aim for greatness where it counts!?What are the Top Ten moments of your day so far?