Tools for Growth and Resilience - Warrior Mindset: Part 6
Gregg Swanson, PCC, NLP
Mental Performance Coach ?? Taking High Achievers to Greater Levels of Success | Experience True Fulfillment, Purpose & Freedom in Your Personal & Professional Life
Welcome back, Fellow Warriors! Our journey through the Warrior Mindset series has brought us to an exciting point. In Part 5, we explored the power of a growth mindset and learned why constant evolution is the key to true strength.
Today, in Part 6, we’re diving into the practical tools that help build resilience and toughness. These aren’t just ideas—they’re actionable practices you can incorporate into your life every day to cultivate a warrior mentality.
Tools for Growth and Resilience
At this point, we’ve talked a lot about the mindset of a warrior, but let’s get practical. How do you actually build that warrior mentality in your daily life? What tools can you use to get tougher, more resilient, and more focused?
I’ll tell you, there’s no magic formula here. It takes work—consistent, sometimes uncomfortable work. But there are a few things that have helped me grow stronger, both mentally and physically, and I’m going to share them with you.
These are simple tools, but don’t let that fool you. When used consistently, they can transform your mindset and help you handle whatever life throws your way.
Meditation: Mastering Your Mind
Let’s start with meditation. I’ll be honest—there was a time when I thought meditation was just for monks or people with way too much time on their hands. I mean, who has time to sit quietly and do nothing?
Turns out, meditation is anything but doing nothing. It’s one of the most powerful tools for mastering your mind, and once I gave it a real shot, it completely changed how I handled stress, fear, and even anger.
Meditation teaches you to control your thoughts. That sounds simple, but think about it: How many times have you let your thoughts spiral out of control? How often do you find yourself reacting to things emotionally, without really thinking them through?
Meditation helps you stop that. It creates a kind of mental space between stimulus and response. Instead of reacting on autopilot, you can choose how to respond.
I started small—just five minutes a day. I’d sit quietly, close my eyes, and focus on my breathing. At first, my mind would race all over the place. I’d think about what I had to do later, or replay a conversation in my head.
But over time, I learned to let those thoughts pass by without getting attached to them. And as I kept practicing, I noticed something: I was calmer. More patient. Less reactive.
Now, I meditate every day, and it’s become my go-to tool when things get stressful. If you haven’t tried it, I highly recommend giving it a shot. Even five minutes can make a difference.
Correct Breathing: Harnessing Your Body’s Natural Power
Right up there with meditation is breathing. I know, it sounds too basic to matter, but how you breathe has a huge impact on how you feel. Most of us go through the day taking shallow breaths, especially when we’re stressed.
Shallow breathing keeps your body in a heightened state of tension—your nervous system stays on high alert, and you never fully relax. It’s like being in a constant state of fight-or-flight.
One of the best things you can do for your mental toughness is to learn how to breathe correctly. That means deep, belly breathing—breathing from your diaphragm, not your chest. When you take deep breaths, you’re telling your body it’s safe. You’re shifting from fight-or-flight mode to rest-and-digest mode, and that has a calming effect on your entire system.
Here’s how I do it: When I’m feeling stressed or overwhelmed, I stop and take a deep breath in through my nose, filling my belly, not my chest. Then, I slowly exhale through my mouth. I repeat this a few times, and within minutes, I can feel my body start to relax. It’s like flipping a switch.
The beauty of this tool is that you can use it anywhere, anytime. Stuck in traffic? Breathe. About to walk into a difficult meeting? Breathe. It’s one of the simplest ways to regain control over your mind and body.
Cold Showers: Building Mental Toughness
Ah, cold showers (or cryotherapy). They’re brutal, I won’t lie. But they’re also one of the most effective ways to build mental toughness. You see, the thing about cold showers is that nobody wants to take them. It’s uncomfortable. It’s shocking. Your body immediately wants to jump out of the freezing water. And that’s why they work.
I started taking cold showers a few years ago, and at first, I hated every second of it. I’d stand there, bracing myself, trying to talk myself into staying under the cold water. But over time, I realized that it wasn’t just about enduring the cold. It was about building the discipline to do something uncomfortable every single day. And that discipline? It spills over into other areas of your life.
When you start your day with something as challenging as a cold shower, everything else seems easier. That difficult conversation you need to have? No problem. That tough workout? Bring it on. It’s like training your mind to handle discomfort and push through it, which is exactly what the warrior mindset is all about.
Now, I won’t sugarcoat it…cold showers still suck. But the benefits far outweigh the discomfort. Not only do they build mental toughness, but they also improve circulation, boost your immune system, and give you a burst of energy. If you’re looking for a way to toughen up mentally and physically, this is a great place to start.
Strength Training and Martial Arts: Strengthening the Body to Strengthen the Mind
You didn’t think I’d leave out physical training, did you? Warriors throughout history were known for their physical strength, and while the modern warrior might not need to fight in battle, physical toughness is still crucial. Your body and mind are connected, and when you train one, you train the other.
For me, strength training and martial arts have been game-changers. When I first started lifting weights, it wasn’t just about getting stronger physically…it was about building the mental resilience to keep going when things got hard. There’s something about pushing your body to its limits that translates into mental toughness. You learn to push through pain, to stay focused when you’re tired, and to keep going when you want to quit.
Martial arts, on the other hand, teach you discipline, focus, and respect. It’s not just about learning to fight; it’s about learning to control yourself. Every punch, every kick, every movement is done with intention. And over time, that discipline carries over into your everyday life. You become more mindful, more patient, and more resilient.
I recommend incorporating some form of physical training into your daily routine—whether it’s strength training, martial arts, or even something like running or yoga. The important thing is that you’re challenging your body, because when you challenge your body, you’re also challenging your mind.
The Warrior’s Toolbox: Practical, Everyday Tools
The tools I’ve shared with you…meditation , correct breathing, cold showers, and physical training…are all part of what I call the warrior’s toolbox. They’re simple, practical, and incredibly effective when used consistently. You don’t need to be a monk or a Navy SEAL to start using these tools. You just need the willingness to put in the work.
Here’s the thing: becoming a warrior isn’t about doing one big, heroic thing. It’s about doing the small, uncomfortable things every day. It’s about showing up, even when you don’t feel like it. It’s about using the tools you have to get a little bit stronger, a little bit tougher, and a little bit more resilient with each passing day.
Are you ready to start building your warrior’s toolbox? It won’t happen overnight, but if you commit to using these tools every day, you’ll be amazed at how much stronger you become…inside and out.
Conclusion
Thank you for joining me as we explored the tools that can transform your mindset and build resilience. Remember, the warrior’s path is about consistent, sometimes uncomfortable work, but each small step makes a difference.
If you want to continue sharpening your skills and mindset, don’t forget to grab your free report, "Secret Practices of a Corporate Warrior." Stay tuned for Part 7, where we’ll uncover more strategies to help you thrive both in and out of the corporate arena. Until then, keep pushing forward, warriors!
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