Tired of New Year Goal Setting?
Simone Alicia, Ph.D.
High-Level Coach to High-Achievers & Big Dreamers | Master Motivational Speaker | Ph.D. in Metaphysical Science Specializing in Holistic Life Coaching | Certified Neuro-Linguistic Programming Practitioner
A Mind-Blowing Shift That Changes Everything - RIGHT NOW!
You Don’t Actually Want the Goal, You Want the Feeling It Brings
What if I told you: You don’t only want money, stuff, and a long list of physical things!
What you really want is the feelings they bring, like freedom, worthiness, love, and security.
Maybe you've heard this before - or may not! But this year, I say we flip this entire New Year’s goal-setting process on its head.
Keep reading —you’ll be grateful you stayed for this ride.
Here’s the secret: Every single "physical goal" you’ve ever set (like a new car, a better job, or a six-figure income) is really just a doorway to an emotional goal. And if you master the emotional goal first, the physical goals naturally fall into place.
This is the proven quantum model of reality. As Dr. Joe Dispenza says, it's not about "cause and effect" it's about "causing an effect!"
No more chasing the same goals year after year. No more giving up mid-March "oh well, I’ll just try again next year" spiral. It’s time for something new - that works!
What Are Emotional Goals (And Why They Hold All the Power)?
Think of emotional goals as the foundation beneath every dream you've ever had. Imagine your physical goals (the house, car, job, promotion) sitting on top of this foundation of emotional needs. Without a strong foundation, everything on top crumbles.
But here’s where it gets really interesting. The stronger your connection to your emotional goal, the faster your physical goals align. It’s like tuning a radio to the exact right frequency. Suddenly, the "static" (struggle, delays, and self-sabotage) vanishes.
When you make the emotional goal your primary focus, you activate a force so powerful it’s been discussed by some of the world’s most profound thought leaders like Dr. Joe Dispenza, Deepak Chopra, Florence Scovel Shinn, and Abraham Hicks.
That force is the quantum field (Dispenza) - or field of pure potentiality (Chopra)
In fact, Joe Dispenza says, “The moment you start feeling abundant and worthy, you are generating wealth. The moment you’re empowered and feel it, you begin to step toward your success.”
That, my friend, is quantum alignment. Having this realization is the moment everything changes, because when you focus on the emotional goal, the physical one comes faster.
Science Backs This Up (And Here’s The Data To Prove It)
According to HeartMath Institute research, your heart’s magnetic field is 5,000 times stronger than your brain’s. Why is that important? Because your emotional state has a measurable, physical impact on your environment!!! Your emotions are not just "in your head"—they’re in your heart, body, and energy field. (Read all of that again!)
Here’s a quick graph to drive it home:
WHAT THIS GRAPH TELLS US: The more positive your emotional state (the higher the emotional vibration), the faster your physical goals appear. Your emotions literally change your field of attraction. This isn’t "woo-woo" magic—this is hard data backed by HeartMath and echoed by thought leaders like Dr. Bruce Lipton (author of The Biology of Belief).
Here’s why you’ve been stuck in the same goal cycle for years: You were "chasing the thing" instead of "embracing the feeling."
How to Set Emotional Goals That Work (And Why It Feels Magical)
1?? Start with Your Why: Write down every physical goal you have for the next 12 months. Then, for each one, ask yourself:
Example: If you want a new job, your feelings might be:
2?? Flip The Script: Instead of writing "I want to land a six-figure job," write, “This year, I AM embodying the feeling of being respected and confident in every aspect of my life.”
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3?? Feel It Right Now: This is where people like Rhonda Byrne (The Secret) and Wayne Dyer change lives. Don’t "hope" for respect. Be it now. Feel respected every day. Walk in the room as if you’re already respected. It’s not “fake it 'til you make it” — it’s “embody it 'til it shows up.”
4?? Elevate Your State Daily: Use tools like:
By day one, you’ll already feel it. By week one, you’ll start to see it.
How To Lock In This New Approach (And Take It Even Further)
First, we'll redirect our focus away from fear! Ah, yes, fear. The great dream killer.
Fear is the enemy of emotional goals... or even more accurately FEAR IS AN EMOTIONAL GOAL. ?? Whether it's economy, elections, past failures or anxiety, fear is an emotional focus on things you "don't want." Fear drags you back to the familiar "stuckness" of trying the same old approach, hoping for brand new results! Fear tells you to chase the material status symbols instead of deeper emotional soul needs.
This year, my physical goal is to help 100 people to transcend fear and lean into emotional goals that they DO WANT. My emotional goal behind this is I want to feel helpful, fulfilled, and empowered to spread knowledge. I want to cause a positive effect in peoples lives!
So, I’m not just talking about it — I am actively going to use Neuro Linguistic Programming Tools to help reprogram your thoughts, rehearse these emotional goals, and give you the ability to apply these principles IMMEDIATELY!!
I’m teaching this Masterclass online - so everyone can access from across the globe. Anyone feeling stuck, anxious, or just ready to experience real success at the soul level - instead of the "chase-and-crash" goal-setting-cycle we see every New Year.
We’ll dive into tools from:
?? Quantum Physics (no, you don’t need a Ph.D. — I make it easy!)
?? Metaphysical Science (the unseen forces of life)
?? NLP (reprogram your mind with precision)
?? ...and more
My 100 person goal is for us to meet live online - but I'll record the class too, to help you access it, even if you aren't available (on December 11, 2024)
Here's Why Emotional Goals Work So Fast
1?? You Stop Needing It To Happen: When you embody joy, peace, or love right now, you’re no longer in the energy of "lack." You’re in the feeling, now and radiating more abundance.
2?? You Become Magnetic: The HeartMath data is real—when you operate in high coherence (gratitude, joy, love), you attract matching physical experiences. The proof is there!
3?? You No Longer Burn Out: When you’re embracing an emotional goal, you never "fail." Even if you don't get the "thing," you can still choose joy, peace, and fulfillment without it. (And no this is not about being jobless, homeless and happy - come on! The point is the emotional goal WILL LEAD YOU TO THE PHYSICAL GOAL, but as you wait or attract the right "things" you can be happy along the way.)
Final Thoughts
This principle isn’t about typical “goals” anymore. It’s about taking control of the deeper emotions that have inspired our physical goals. It's those same emotions will ultimately help us to manifest the physical things we want in life! You don’t need to wait for the house, job, car, or cash to feel free, loved, or worthy. You can feel those emotions right now — and guess what? That energy will convert to matter and deliver all that you are dreaming (and feeling).
The science behind it is truly astonishing. And we'll dive into all of it - and answer your questions at my masterclass.
Give yourself an hour and a half to completely transform 2023 into your Happiest Year Yet - by keeping emotional goals at the top of your list.
I can't wait to see your shift in the Masterclass. Reserve Your Virtual Seat Here.
Let’s make some (scientifically backed) magic together.?
—Dr. Simone Alicia,
Internationally Recognized Authority on Self-Esteem, TV Subject Matter Expert, and Award Winning Motivational Speaker