Timeless Lessons from "Tuesdays with Morrie"
Shahariar Ferdous
Driving Operational Excellence | Technology, AI, and Renewable/solar energy Enthusiast | Leading Mission-Critical Infrastructure for 60M+ Customers
10 lessons from Morrie's simple yet powerful teachings whether you're climbing the corporate ladder, building a business, or seeking more meaning in your personal life. A perspective on success, happiness, and what it means to live fully and can reshape our understanding of career, connection, and what truly constitutes a life well-lived...
1.???? Redefine Success and Meaning "So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when they're busy doing things they think are important." Reflection: Are you chasing the right goals in your career and personal life? True success lies in loving others, serving your community, and finding purpose beyond external achievements.
2.???? Prioritize Relationships "The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in. Without love, we're birds with broken wings." Action: Nurture meaningful connections at work, with family, and friends. These relationships are your true wealth in all aspects of life.
3.???? Create Your Own Values "The culture we have doesn't make people feel good about themselves. And you have to be strong enough to say if the culture doesn't work, don't buy it." Challenge: Define your personal and professional values. Don't let societal norms or workplace culture dictate what's important to you.
4.???? Embrace Authenticity "Accept who you are; and revel in it." Practice: Bring your whole self to work and your personal relationships. Authenticity builds stronger connections in all areas of life.
5.???? Give More Than You Take "Giving to other people is what makes me feel alive. Not my car or my house." Idea: Mentor a colleague, volunteer in your community, or support a friend in need. Find ways to contribute both professionally and personally.
6.???? Live Mindfully "Once you learn how to die, you learn how to live." Daily Practice: Start each day by asking, "Is today the day? Am I ready? Am I doing all I need to do? Am I being the person I want to be?" Apply this to both work and personal goals.
7.???? Balance Ambition with Contentment "Why do we need to be number one? What's wrong with being number two?" Reflection: Strive for excellence in your career, but not at the cost of your personal well-being, relationships, or ethics.
8.???? Cultivate Trust "If you're ever going to have other people trust you, you must feel that you can trust them too, even when you're falling." Action: Foster a culture of trust in your professional and personal relationships by being vulnerable and supportive.
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9.???? Forgive and Move Forward "Forgive yourself before you die. Then forgive others." Challenge: Identify grudges or regrets in both your professional and personal life. Take steps to address them, then let them go.
10.? Invest in Your 'Human Family' "Invest in the human family. Invest in people. Build a little community of those you love and who love you." Idea: Create a supportive network at work, in your industry, and in your personal life. Success and happiness are sweeter when shared.
As professionals and individuals, we're often caught up in "trillions of little acts just to keep going." Morrie's wisdom reminds us to step back and ask: Is this all? Is something missing in our work or personal lives?
Remember, "Love wins. Love always wins." Let this also guide your professional decisions and personal interactions alike.
Reflection Questions:
·How do you balance career ambitions with personal relationships and self-care?
·Are you giving to your community through your work and personal endeavors?
·Are you at peace with yourself in your current role and life situation?
·How are you trying to be as human as you can be in both your professional and personal life?