That time I spoke to 17,000 people in my pajamas...
Marie Incontrera
Founder/CEO at Incontrera Consulting & Growth Speak Agency | New Business: Spotless Squad | Author | Speaker | Digital Marketer | Speaker Training, Writing, Coaching, Booking | Musical Theater Writer | she/they
You know those recurring nightmares people have where you're standing in front of the class, or in front of an executive roundtable, or on stage... in your underwear?
Well, I once presented to 17,000 people. And I was wearing my pajamas.
And no, it wasn’t a nightmare. I was very much awake.
It was during the peak of the COVID days, before vaccines were widely available. I think I’d gotten my first shot, but not my second, so I was still in self-imposed lockdown. Like many others, I’d embraced the quarantine aesthetic—I’d dyed my hair an outrageous shade of red-purple, partly out of boredom and partly because... well, why not?
Those were the Zoom days. The world had suddenly gone Very Much Online, and I was lucky enough that my business thrived in that environment. In fact, I scaled exponentially during COVID—but that’s a story for another email.
This particular day, I had a virtual speaking engagement. Seventeen thousand people had signed up to hear me talk. That’s not a typo. 17,000.
And because of the pandemic, I was wearing my pajamas. But not my "nighttime pajamas." I had upgraded to my "daytime pajamas," a now-ritualized nod to keeping some semblance of routine in a locked-down world.
That said, don’t let the loungewear fool you—I was fully prepared. I had a full face of makeup, an outline of my points, and the energy to match the occasion. I was ready to deliver.
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And deliver, I did. That 45-minute session—without any explicit sales pitch at the end—turned out to be the keynote of my life. It packed my calendar for months. It doubled my business that year and the year after.
It taught me an invaluable lesson: there’s no more powerful business development activity than speaking directly to your ideal clients.
Here’s the good news: while we can all go outside again, virtual speaking opportunities are still alive and thriving. And while my clients and I often speak at in-person events, we’re finding incredible results with virtual ones as well.
I’m gearing up for two virtual speaking engagements early next year, and I can’t wait to share more about them soon.
If you’re ready to explore the same opportunities and create that kind of impact for your business, let’s connect. Because whether you’re in a tailored suit or your coziest pajamas, speaking to the right audience is transformative.
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3 个月I love this story. I work from home a lot and have more meetings than I would have had to go in person BC - Before Covid. Working from home is so much more relaxed and I get more sleep. Instead of waking up at 6am to travel to work, I get up at 8am to start my day. Virtual meeting dress code is a polo t shirt or sometimes a shirt and tie. Below my waist is boxers. I’m am a lot more confident and relaxed in these meetings. I’m free to express my opinions, comments or engagements because I feel it’s my space, my environment, and my turf. In person meetings were intimidating and I also felt like I was in someone else’s turf. Working virtually also always me to spend more time with my mother - 87 y.o. With dementia, lungs and heart failures. I have a job and a boss who understands my situation and his compassion and support makes me work with suck flexibility that my job is not a 9-5. It’s about getting the job done. I’m all my previous jobs BC cause added traumatic experiences because those bosses were old school. There was never a moment they cared for the person it’s was about showing up on time but never measured productivity. I hear and love your story. Wont it be nice if we start posting pics of ourselves with PP dress code?
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3 个月Legend. Even in jammies.
Teaching over a million learners about machine learning, statistics, and Artificial Intelligence (AI) | Data Science Principal at Further
3 个月Love this story Marie! Isn't it amazing how the virtual speaking has stayed permanently? Online and in-person coexist.