??The three drivers to predictable outcomes??

Predict Outcomes, Control Your Success

Imagine having the ability to predict outcomes before even starting something. Envision having control over your future success, knowing the likelihood of achieving your desired goals. While I can't guarantee success, I can help you predict your chances and increase the probability of achieving your dreams. It all comes down to three powerful drivers that are within your control — drivers that can enhance predictability in your life and pave the way to your aspirations.

A Client's Journey to a Stress-Free Morning

Take, for instance, a client I recently worked with who simply yearned for a stress-free morning. It may sound like a simple desire, but for years, she struggled to achieve it. Every morning, the chaos of preparing three kids for school while getting herself ready for work overwhelmed her. Rushing and lateness had become the norm. She tried various tactics, from waking up earlier to incentivising her children, but nothing seemed to stick. The peace she sought vanished after a few days, returning her to the same stressful state.

Define Your Desired Outcome

This example illustrates but one desired outcome. What about you? What is it that you currently desire in life? Perhaps it relates to your career, relationships, health, finances, or stress management. Identify that one thing you yearn for right now.

Now, ask yourself three pivotal questions:

1?? Does my self-identity align with my desired outcome?

2?? Are my routines supporting the achievement of my goals?

3?? Do I have the essential rituals in place to increase my chances of success?

It's common for most people to struggle with answering these questions confidently.

Overcoming Self-Identity Traps

Many find themselves trapped in a self-identity confined to their current circumstances, rather than embracing the person they aspire to become. They visualise themselves as perpetually stressed and running late, defining themselves as someone doomed to always be tardy. It may seem easier, as it eradicates any potential disappointment.

Aligned Routines for Optimal Performance

Upon examining their routines, they often discover a lack of structure, with erratic and constantly changing habits. These routines fail to align with their desired outcomes. Keys are misplaced, resulting in wasted time searching for them, and lunch preparation becomes a last-minute scramble, leading to frustration and raised voices.

The Power of Rituals for Increased Success

Effective rituals that support optimal performance are often nonexistent. A routine may be a mindless task to be completed, such as making a packed lunch. Conversely, a ritual entails imbuing meaningful purpose and practice into an action. Journaling before bed, reflecting on the day, fosters serenity and a restful sleep, ensuring a refreshed awakening in the morning. Transforming the morning routine into a time of laughter and family bonding (yes, it's possible!) creates a home filled with joyous moments, replacing incessant shouting and commotion.

Realign Your Self-Identity and Unleash Your Potential

By guiding my client in creating a customised morning routine that suited her family's dynamics and introducing rituals to recharge herself, she gained the confidence to redefine her self-identity. Through this transformation, she began identifying herself as punctual, respectful of others' time, and a calming presence to those around her. This realignment allowed her to effortlessly adhere to the routines and rituals that had become ingrained habits within her family.

Although the focus here was on the simplicity of leaving home in a calm, tranquil, and happy state of mind, applying these three drivers to any desired outcome can dramatically boost your likelihood of success.

Take the First Step Towards Your Success

Ready to unlock your potential and increase your chances of triumph? Take the first step by completing our free online assessment or reach out to me via email to discover how these drivers can transform your journey. The power to shape your future is within your grasp!

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