Three common lies or self-doubts that women tell themselves when they consider leaving their 9-5 jobs

For many women, the idea of leaving a 9-5 job to start their own business feels both exhilarating and terrifying. Amidst the excitement of creating something meaningful lies a stream of self-doubt and internal dialogue that often holds them back. These lies are not the truth.

Let’s uncover three of the most common lies women tell themselves and how you can move forward with clarity and confidence.

1. "I’m Not Qualified Enough to Start My Own Business"

Many women believe they need additional degrees, certifications, or years of experience to be successful entrepreneurs. This mindset stems from societal conditioning that often undervalues women’s skills and abilities. The truth? Your experiences, passions, and unique perspective are more than enough to begin your entrepreneurial journey.

Instead of focusing on qualifications you don’t have, ask yourself, “What skills and strengths do I already possess that I can bring to the table?”

2. "I Can’t Afford to Take the Risk"

Financial fear is one of the biggest barriers for women considering leaving their jobs. While practical concerns are valid, this lie often masks deeper fears of failure or uncertainty. The reality is that strategic planning and incremental steps can make the transition more manageable than you think.

Rather than focusing on the risk, think about the cost of staying stuck. What opportunities, growth, and fulfillment are you sacrificing by remaining in your current role?

3. "What If I Fail?"

The fear of failure looms large when stepping into the unknown. But failure is not the end — it’s a stepping stone toward growth and success. Every successful entrepreneur has experienced setbacks, and what sets them apart is their ability to learn and pivot.

Instead of asking, “What if I fail?” shift to, “What if I succeed beyond my wildest dreams?” Success requires courage, and courage starts with taking the first step.

I want to share that you are not alone in facing these doubts. Every woman who has successfully transitioned from a 9-5 job to building her dream business has faced these same lies. The difference? They chose to challenge them. If you’re ready to do the same, the Empower Her coaching program is here to guide you every step of the way.

Ready to get started? Book your free consultation today and let’s embark on this journey together.