Those stay in your heart who support others

All human beings are on different levels of growth- mentally, socially, emotionally, and spiritually! We are here to live and learn. As we learn from experiences/ life's lessons, we gain knowledge, wisdom, insight, and understanding. We advance in our perceptions, etc. We are the result of what we learn. Lessons - tend to change a person. Granted, there are people in this world that are more loving than others, kinder, more caring, etc., never- the- less, we all live and learn and hopefully become better people.

Even though with each generation, morals and moral values become devalued/demoralized, there are still souls in this world and being born into this world with a higher level of wisdom and love than others; people that tend to see things totally different than the rest of the world; and, when they share the nature of who they are, people receive them as being different than others, and they are, in terms of how they treat other and what they have to say!

We know that humans are social creatures, one of our most amazing advantages that makes us the species we are. A wide range of emotions is pretty amazing if you think of it, and these can cement memories in place. When someone gets engraved in your memory that person could've done of two things: They were there at the right moment and they did the right thing at the right time.

In the first scenario, you are in a position that leaves you vulnerable, a highly emotional state. A kind gesture that seems meaningless like a smile or a conversation could make a huge difference at such a moment. Such a person is forever connected to that feeling of elevation that it never leaves you. In the second scenario an impression of someone could remind you of something in your life that has great meaning to you, in that case that person would be connected to that feeling even though they were not part of it. It's a form of conditioning that can be very powerful.

And of course these are just two possible scenarios that occur to me right now. Memory is a strange thing, especially combined with emotions. So someone doesn't need to adhere to one of those scenarios to be forever in your mind, but I do believe it requires a strong emotion in order to leave a long lasting impression. Maybe its chemistry maybe its destiny, maybe its history. Maybe its destiny creating/ changing history repeating and your soul remenbers and you cant fight the chemistry. I don't know that you can change whom it is that excites butterflies to life inside you.

I think it is more like our DNA is smart enough to build a body that holds fluids in ,pumps them here and there I wonder though. This just in as a new thought, is it the body's chemistry reacting or is it the energy " that life"-ness that makes an individual their own style. I wonder if it is not a reaction of our energies mingling rather than chemistry. Maybe its both the chemistry of energy. Ah ok, so we are all unique with our own histories some have been here and some there and we all need different things at different times. Sometimes we get blessings angels and spiritual moments.

Maybe it would be okay for you to look at those moments of which you speak such as , times you are comparing to and with the others who do and do not spark you. What similarities can you see? How close are the people to you that do not spark that spark in you? Is it only new people that this spark happens with? And it could be just a fragment of your desires subconsciously being called and then given to you. I think it’s because now and then throughout life you meet a person who says exactly the words you desperately need to hear at that specific moment in your life.

Maybe you struggle with something, and voila, one sentence from a stranger put it all in place. Why haven’t you just came up with that thought yourself? I have experienced this many times. That is a touch of my hearth. Thank you to all who have done this, most of you don’t even know. If I meet such a person again, I use to tell them in person what this few words meant to me, and in how way they change my life. Or at least give me a little bit more to struggle with. And there are also people who I meet at a regular basis who’s brain is sending at the same waves as mine most of the time. It’s a relief. Understanding without saying. That touch my heart, too. Cheers!