...Think....Think....Think...Think...Think...Think

No matter how good a track record you might have... no matter how successful you have been... no matter how smooth you think you are…you gotta think?about what you say to a prospective employer when you get asked a question. You got to ask yourself, "If I don't know me or my situation, how does this sound to a prospective employer?"

This week, I had an excellent candidate interview for a position with an outstanding consulting firm. The job in the company would've been a very nice step up for him and, certainly, the company needed his track record and his potential. The guy had been phenomenally successful at a much smaller,very unknown, consulting firm. This was going to be his chance to get into the "major leagues." And the company was going to be able to hire a star.

Here is what the employer wrote me after the interview:

"I am not able to move forward with ---------- as a candidate. He told me that he had issues with his expense reports being too large for client dinners, and not getting approved. He also told me that he went around his manager’s back to do things he wasn’t supposed to (outside of his role), because he felt like he should do them anyway."

Why, why, why, why, why would anybody communicate that to a prospective employer? Now, the truth is that the candidate’s present firm is first class cheap. He ended up paying some of his expenses out of his own pocket. What he was trying to communicate was that, "I go the extra mile and do what I have to do."

But obviously, what came across to the potential manager was, "This guy doesn't mind breaking the rules and goes around his management and does whatever he wants to do! I can’t afford to hire anybody that's going to be that deliberate in breaking my or my company's rules." End of consideration!

I've known as candidate for a number of years and he's really a good guy. A really good guy. He's not a malcontent. In fact, he's a top producer. The situation unfortunately is really sad.

I don't have a problem when one of my clients doesn't hire one of my candidates because they don't think the candidate would perform well, or even if they eliminate the candidate because of a personality mismatch. But this is really unfortunate.

If you're a job candidate you got to think, "How was this going to come across to this hiring authority?" You got to remember that employers identify with employers. Anything a job seeker says about their last employer, whoever is interviewing them is going to assume that they're going to say the same thing about them. How you treat your present or last employer is going to be the way you treat them.

The candidate realized when I sent him this email from the employer what he had done. I give him credit for not being defensive about it or saying something like, "That's not what I meant!" A lot of candidates would just plain old deny that they said that and defend themselves and claim that the interviewing or hiring authority got it all wrong and they were crazy not to consider hiring the candidate anyhow. But my candidate understood. He agreed that it probably wasn't the smartest thing to say and said he was sorry. He was as graceful as he could be about it.

So the lesson is: THINK!

ABOUT TONY BESHARA

Owner & President

Babich & Associates

Tony Beshara is the owner and president of Babich & Associates, established in 1952 and the oldest placement and recruitment service in Texas.?It is consistently one of?the top contingency placement firms in the DFW area, and has been recognized as one of the “Best Places to Work in DFW” by the?Dallas Business Journal. He has been a professional recruiter since 1973 and has personally found jobs for more than 10,500 individuals.?He sits behind a desk every day, working the phone literally seven hours of the twelve hours a day, making close to 200 calls a day.?He is in the trenches on a day-to-day basis.?Tony has personally interviewed more than 26,000 people on all professional levels and has worked with more than 23,000 hiring authorities.?Babich & Associates has helped more than 100,000 people find jobs using Tony’s process.?Tony is one of the most successful placement and recruitment professionals in the United States.?

Tony received his Ph.D. in Higher Education from St. Louis University in 1973.?

The second edition of his best-selling book,?“The Job Search Solution” The Ultimate?System for Finding a Great job NOW!”??came out in January of 2012.?He also created a 45 hour online program about how to find a job,?www.The?Job Search Solution.com.?Tony’s second best seller, “ACING??The Interview”, answers almost any question regarding interviewing in today’s erratic job market.?“Unbeatable Resumes,”?discusses resumes for the present, unique employment market. His latest book for job seekers,?“Powerful Phrases for?Successful Interviews,”?published in February of 2014, offers 400 ideal phases for every interviewing situation. His newest book, co-authored with Rich Lavinski, the managing partner of E. 57th Street Partners,?“100,000 Successful Hires, The Art, Science and Luck of?Successful Hiring”?is about the “other side” of the desk… advice for the hiring authority. It, too, is a bestseller.

Tony recent TED Talk, “The 10 Principles of Loving Your Career and Your Job” was presented in October of 2015 at Mountain View College in Dallas. It can be viewed in its entirety on Tony’s YouTube channel.

?He is a frequent guest on the?Dr. Phil Show, offering Dr. Phil’s guests advice on the job search process.?He is also a frequent guest/expert on various local and nationally televised business shows, including those on Fox Business News. Tony also hosts a weekday radio show,?The Job Search Solution?on The Word KWRD-FM, 100.7 FM, every weekday evening from 8:30pm to 9:00pm. Tony and his beautiful wife of 51 years, Chris, have four grown sons.?

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