Think Never Failing Equals Success? ??
Bas Lebesque
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You've climbed the proverbial ladder with precision, avoiding any missteps that might be labeled as "failures." Yet, something seems off. You're afraid to take risks, paralyzed by the idea that failing would destroy your track record. But what if I told you that a successful mindset doesn't avoid failures—it embraces them? I am about to shatter some illusions.
The Mirage of Perfection ??
We all want that pristine, failure free résumé of life experiences. It sounds nice, but it's a mirage. Chasing perfection not only sets you up for disappointment but also robs you of the necessary opportunities to learn and grow.
The Real Deal About Failure ??
Failure isn't a scarlet letter; it's a gold star in the bigger scheme of life's lessons. When you fail, you get a front-row seat to what doesn't work, which is often the fastest route to figuring out what does. It's the ultimate learning experience, dressed up as a setback.
Turning "F" for Failure into "F" for Forward ??
Think of failure as a compass that points you in the right direction—forward. Every failed venture directs you to a different path, a new strategy, a better way of doing things.
Embrace, Don't Erase ??
Instead of cleaning your history of any perceived failures, embrace them. Talk about them openly, and then use them as your stepping stones to something greater. Remember, the most powerful lessons often come from the missteps, not the milestones.
Some of my failures:
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How to Cultivate a Success-Oriented Mindset ??
1. Be Fearless: Don't shy away from challenges because you fear failure. Take calculated risks.
2. Reflect and Reframe: After a setback, take time to reflect on what went wrong and reframe it as a learning opportunity.
3. Keep Moving: Failure is not a full stop; it's a comma in your journey. Learn, adapt, and continue ahead.
Challenge the Status Quo, Embrace the "Fails" ????
A mindset that equates success with never failing is not just flawed; it's limiting. Break free and redefine what success means to you. Spoiler alert: It involves a fair share of failures, each one setting you up for a bigger and better leap toward your goals.
Ready to flip the narrative and make failure your most trusted mentor? Your new chapter starts now.
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Boldly forward,
Bas
Entrepreneur | Co-Founder of Blue Ocean Entrepreneurs | +400 Independant consultants in Europe | Finance | Transformation | Sustainability | Music | Sea | Sport Lover
1 年Great post. Great mindset. Don’t chase perfection. Failure is an opportunity to learn. Embrace it and grow. It is just part of the process of success. But don’t forget tough your wining mindset because ??seule la victoire est belle?? as one says in sport.
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1 年I jusr love the perspective that failure isn't something to avoid, but rather embraces as a learning tool! That's a good reminder Bas. Thank you very much for this