Think all you speak, never speak all you think

The role of the mind is the fabrication of thoughts using the messages receiving via eye, Ear, nose, tongue, and body feelings. Those thoughts naturally get blended with the following qualities. 1. Sensual desire (kamacchanda) 2. Ill-will (vyapada) 3. Laziness and inactivity (thina-middha) 4. Restlessness and regret (uddhaccha-kukkuccha) 5. Skeptical doubt (vicikiccha) Then those thoughts manage you as a Robot and express that behavior via your Verbal and Physical actions. Speaking is the outcome of Verbal actions.

I feel that sometimes my brain goes blank, it doesn't work. For all intents and purposes, we can conceive of the hypothalamus as the bridge between our emotions and sensations. The endocrine system is responsible for the type and amount of hormones throughout our body. If we feel dim, it's probably because we are tired. If our mind resists the change too much. But the mind may not support us easily in the process. We feel that our mind is jammed, we may go blank this time! Especially speaking in front of a group of people is a common anxiety. Because lack of sleep. And feeling extremely happy!

We should not think about our future for a time being. That's why connecting with our soul or spirit helps in this state. We need to avoid conscious mind to work hard. Listening to music helps. Go for a walk. As your body moves, it clears your mind too. Energy returns, we feel more alive and our mind starts functioning. This is really easy. Contrary to some might say, it is not a good thing. I speak my mind, I can’t bloody stop! I don’t filter I try to be me. At first I liked that, made me feel real, like I wasn’t putting on an act.

But no one likes it, no one likes you, if your mind isn’t being serious then you don’t take things serious, if your mind thinks something risky, you say stupid things. Speaking my mind has ruined my life, and I can’t get out of the Chasm it put me in, even if I try to just sit and say nothing all sullen, eventually my dumb mouth opens up, and I feel horrible every! Single! Time!!!! So no, personally, it’s not a good thing, as much as I wish it was, people want you to be honest… except for saying this, this, and this. They say they want you to speak up, then put you down when you do.

I mostly observe everything happening around me at that time like for example- What is the person standing on my left doing? And how is he doing that? The way in which the person is standing/sitting or talking and many other things as well. And after observing them I try guessing the type of personality the person might be having, like, Introverted/Extroverted or if he/she might be an Ambivert , is the person humorous? Or is he/she kinda serious and stuff. Or sometimes I just make-up conversations in my head ( as I am an introvert) and think what would I reply to the questions that are being asked to me by the imaginary people in my head.

No it is not a bad thing. It is the hard way though and the path less taken. It’s easier to say to a friend that he/she is perfect but will that help them in any way to improve as individuals? No. Of course there is always the risk that people will dislike you for speaking your mind but in the long run, people who will appreciate it are the kind of people you want to have around. So yeah that's what I think in my mind when I am not speaking…..And sorry for the mistakes in the answer if I made any, actually I am new here….. So I am still on my way learning.

Yes, it is possible but not that easy. In most of the cases people get scared by it. I can quote one example. I told one of my students who was after my life to receive some initiation to chant something in a proper way. I told her that in 2–3 years time you should experience something. Barely after 2 months of practising she called one fine night crying loudly. She was dead scared. I asked what happened, she told me when she was chanting alone in the house, suddenly she heard a loud sound telling her to do something. Obviously she got scared. It was her subconscious only. Cheers!