THINGS TO KNOW ABOUT KUNDALI MILAN BEFORE MARRIAGE

The context of marriage according to the Vedas depict that the two beings engaged

in marriage will pursue not just the dharma, represented by houses 1,5,9 in

respective birthcharts but also Artha- houses 2, 6,10 (earning money and other

possessions), Kama- houses 3,7,11(physical and other desires) and Moksha

houses- 4,8,12 (the eternal liberation) together simultaneously. So technical

definition of marriage would be its the settlement of the Pitru rinn through dharma,

kama, artha & moksha.

Many people do not believe in kundali Milan & matchmaking. As such it is prevalent

& practiced mostly in India as compared to western countries.

In the era of multiple relationships, hooking up & situationships, when people

decide to get married, they have already gone through a lot of emotional damage &

have major trust issues.

To find a compatible partner to who ticks most of your boxes becomes difficult. Most

of them want to marry for love & kundali Milan plays a role only when a parent or

elders especially in India want to make sure that match is actually made in heaven &

its safe to get them married to avoid any conflicts in the future.

Incidentally, when couples who are already in a love relationship approach me for

kundali milan, my first question to them is how will this help if you already love each

other? What if the kundalis don’t match, will you break up?

Almost 100 percent of the time, their answer is of course they will not! So my advice

to them then is to not go ahead with it as it creates unwanted doubts.

In Vedas also the best kind of marriage is Gandarva vivah – love marriage. Still, if they want to go ahead then its their choice, then take it as a pre-marital counselling session!

Kundali milan is advised in an arrange set up. Now how does it help? As you are

totally unaware of each other’s nature, the compatibility can be checked by position

of the Moon in respective charts. 8th house depicts longevity, in-laws, 4th house

depicts – domestic peace & happiness, 5th house- progeny & romance in marriage,

7th house- nature of spouse, spouse, partners in your life. 2nd &11th house

finances & gains, 7th , 8th & 12th house sexual compatibility & sexual health. Position

of Jupiter, Venus & Mars in the charts, doshas to avoid & many other sutras are also

checked for over all marital happiness.

To come a conclusion whether this match is preferred for marriage or not, many factors need to be considered as discussed above besides ashtkoot milan.

So, if you really believe in astrology, then it's advisable to do kundali milan in detail by

a learned astrologer & then decide. Otherwise totally exempt it.

Marriages can only be successful & survive in this era when there is mutual respect, care, understanding & conscious promise to self to choose each other for the rest of your lives.

Even if your kundalis match but you default on the other factors, a marriage cannot

be successful nor survive. So do marriages are really made in heaven? That is

debatable . But based on our shastras, marriage is removal of Pitru rinn-(Ancestral

debt), for dharma & for karmic settlement. So choose wisely & consciously as once married, you both will go through highs & lows of life together for your own karmic settlement.

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