There Is No Such Thing As Laziness!
Natalia Meissner
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Understanding the Real Causes of Procrastination
Ah, laziness – that all-too-familiar label we slap on anyone who prefers a Netflix binge over a stack of paperwork or who seems to treat deadlines like vague suggestions rather than hard stops. We’ve all heard it, and let’s be honest, we’ve probably used it. But what if I told you that laziness is a myth, an illusion masking deeper issues?
For over a decade, I've led teams in various business environments, observing countless employees grappling with deadlines, procrastinating on tasks, and missing critical project milestones. From promising candidates missing job application deadlines to team members agonising over a single project for months, the pattern is clear and familiar. But here’s the kicker – I don’t believe laziness is ever at fault. In fact, I don’t believe laziness exists at all.
As someone deeply interested in psychology, social anthropology, and sociology (admittedly an unusual thing for a business-person and entrepreneur), I delve into the situational and contextual factors driving human behaviour. If you want to understand why someone behaves a certain way, look beyond their personality or intelligence. Instead, consider their environment, the social norms, and the situational constraints they face. When an employee misses deadlines or struggles with tasks, the question to ask is: what are the barriers holding them back? What needs are unmet? What invisible hurdles are they facing?
Psychological research supports this perspective. A seminal study by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi on "flow" states found that individuals are most productive and engaged when they are in environments that support their autonomy, competence, and relatedness. These findings suggest that when employees appear disengaged or lazy, it is often because these fundamental needs are not being met.
A Lesson in Empathy from a Stranger
A transformative lesson in empathy came from a conversation with a stranger I met once and connected with immediately since we had similar interests and both believed in the power of empathy and emotional intelligence in human relations. This stranger’s approach to understanding and accommodating others was both enlightening and humbling. The revelation came when he pointed out that we should replace judgement with curiosity.
For instance, consider a homeless person buying alcohol or cigarettes. To an outsider, it may appear careless and irresponsible. But for someone battling the cold, hunger, and lack of rest, these small comforts can be vital for survival. When you're sleeping on the streets, alcohol might be the only way to warm up and get some rest, and cigarettes might be the only thing that helps to curb hunger pangs. Understanding this context replaces judgement with empathy.
This shift in perspective is supported by the work of Dr Brené Brown, a research professor at the University of Houston. Her studies on vulnerability and empathy highlight that understanding and accepting others' experiences, rather than judging them, is crucial for fostering meaningful connections and effective support systems.
Applying Empathy in Leadership
This insight is crucial for understanding behaviours that seem inexplicable or irresponsible. It reshapes how we view procrastination, a behaviour often mistaken for laziness. Psychological research indicates that procrastination stems from anxiety about not being “good enough” or confusion about how to start a task. The more meaningful the task, the higher the stakes, and the greater the anxiety – hardly the mark of a lazy individual.
Procrastinators often torture themselves with guilt and stress, further paralysing their ability to act. The solution lies not in branding them lazy but in understanding and addressing the barriers they face. If anxiety is the issue, they might need to step away and relax. If it’s a matter of executive functioning, they need help breaking down tasks into manageable steps and establishing a clear timeline.
Studies by Dr Tim Pychyl, a prominent researcher on procrastination, have shown that procrastination is more closely related to emotion regulation issues than to time management or self-discipline problems. His research suggests that helping employees manage their emotions and break tasks into smaller, more manageable parts can significantly reduce procrastination.
The Silver Bullet: Awakening Intrinsic Motivation
One of the most powerful tools for addressing so-called "laziness" is to awaken intrinsic motivation. When people find personal meaning and value in their work, their drive and commitment naturally increase. Research by Deci and Ryan on Self-Determination Theory highlights that fostering intrinsic motivation involves supporting employees' autonomy, competence, and relatedness.
Practical steps to awaken intrinsic motivation include:
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Creating a Supportive Environment
In my years of leadership, I've encountered numerous employees who were unfairly labelled as lazy or disorganised. Many times, these individuals were balancing significant personal challenges alongside their professional responsibilities. Once their barriers were acknowledged and addressed, they began to thrive professionally.
In the business world, if an employee misses deadlines or struggles with productivity, it’s crucial to look beyond the surface. What unseen challenges are they facing? Is it a lack of clear instructions, overwhelming workload, or personal issues? Addressing these barriers can transform their performance and well-being.
Research from Gallup’s State of the Global Workplace report underscores the importance of a supportive work environment. The report found that employees who feel supported by their managers are significantly more engaged and productive. This support includes clear communication, empathy, and practical assistance in overcoming obstacles.
Practical Steps for Leaders
To foster a more supportive and productive environment, leaders can:
Conclusion
We must shift from judgement to empathy. Recognise that if someone is struggling, it’s likely not by choice. They probably want to succeed and are doing their best under challenging circumstances. If their behaviour doesn’t make sense, it’s because we’re missing part of their context.
This approach can foster a more supportive and productive environment, whether in leadership, management, or everyday interactions. Let's move beyond the outdated concept of laziness and embrace a more nuanced understanding of human behaviour. By doing so, we not only help others thrive but also enrich our own lives with empathy and insight.
Remember, every behaviour has an explanation. Look harder. Understand better. Support more. Let others succeed!
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