Be with them who value your existnence

You can not run from it. Escape from it. You have to face it the way it is whether it is utopia (which it definitely never is) or hell I know this sounds much more familiar, doesnt it? If people do not value you, let it be that way. If it is that way then do not consider that people consider you something like fake people. You do not exist because of them. Your life isnt determined by their actions or attitudes.

Just accept life. And do whatever is good for you. If there is a reason for people to value your existence, then people will value your existence. If there is not a reason for people to value your existence, then people will not value your existence. If you have a caring family or really good friends, they care about your existence. If you are useful to someone, they might also care about your existence. If someone is really comfortable and could afford to value your existence, they will also value it. You are a becon of perfect uniqueness. There will never be another like you, there has never been one like you before. All Terrans are priceless, and should be protected as such.

?I think therefore I am and my opinion is that we can justify our own existence by just thinking and feeling in some Individualistic way that we have about ourselves and the world outside us. We just seek validation and acceptance from others to be liked and appreciated as we are and how we perceive the world… Our existence is self evident. My personal philosophy is that we can value our existence and life by loving our life , loving everything the life offers us…living according to our personal values..

A man went to Guru Nanak Sahib and asked, “What’s the value of life?”Gurunanak ji gave him one stone and said, “Find out the value of this stone, but don’t sell it.” The man took the stone to an Orange Seller and asked him what its cost would be. The Orange Seller saw the shiny stone and said, “You can take 12 oranges and give me this stone.” The man apologized and said that the guru has asked him not to sell it. He went ahead and found a vegetable seller. “What could be the value of this stone?” he asked the vegetable seller.

The seller saw the shiny stone and said, “Take one sack of potatoes and give me this stone.” The man again apologized and said he can’t sell it. Further ahead, he went into a jewellery shop and asked the value of the stone. The jeweler saw the stone under a lens and said, “I’ll give you 50 Lakhs for this stone.” When the man shook his head, the jeweler said, “Alright, alright, take 2 crores, but give me the stone.” The man explained that he can’t sell that stone.Further ahead, the man saw a precious stone’s shop and asked the seller the value of this stone.

When the precious stone’s seller saw the big ruby, he laid down a red cloth and placed the ruby on it. Then he walked in circles around the ruby and bent down and touched his head in front of the ruby. “From where did you bring this priceless ruby from?” he asked. “Even if I sell the whole world, and my life, I won’t be able to purchase this priceless stone”. Stunned and confused, the man returned to the guru and told him what had happened. “Now tell me what is the value of life, guru ji?” Gurunanak said, “The answers you got from the Orange Seller, the Vegetable Seller, the Jeweler & the Precious Stone’s Seller explain the value of our life…

You may be a precious stone, even priceless, but people will value you based on their financial status, their level of information, their belief in you, their motive behind entertaining you, their ambition, and their risk taking ability. But don’t fear, you will surely find someone who will discern your true value.” Respect yourself. ?Always remind myself that I don’t really exist. At least, not in the way most people think they do, as a non-material self or soul that isn’t part of the physical world. Science say that we humans don’t have a “self.” We aren’t something separate and distinct from the physical world. You and I are our brain/mind. When the brain/mind dies, so do we. This is true of everything living, everything that has a brain.

So since I’m not anything special, I can’t expect to be treated in a special way by the people. Everything else that is alive dies. So will I. Of course, most alive things aren’t self-aware, so they don’t worry about this. I try to look at my dog and think, “She is smarter than I am in some ways.” Like, in the way she just lives each day as it comes, mostly happily, and doesn’t worry about dying one day. Cheers!