Thanksgiving Night Let The Sales Begin

Thanksgiving was once sacred—a day for gratitude, family, and the quiet joy of togetherness. Now? It’s the starting gun for a shopping spree. The warmth of connection is traded for the glow of store aisles, and the spirit of giving thanks is drowned out by the roar of Black Friday sales.

When did we let this happen? When did gratitude get outsourced to profit margins? The shift wasn’t sudden; it crept in gradually, under the guise of convenience and irresistible savings. It’s not just a calendar tweak; it’s a cultural surrender. We’ve traded presence for presents, meaning for markdowns.

From Harvest to Hustle

Thanksgiving’s origins lie in the celebration of harvest and community, a day to acknowledge the abundance of life and our connection to one another. But as the years passed, corporations began to recognize a different kind of harvest: our wallets. Black Friday, once confined to the day after Thanksgiving, started creeping into Thursday night. Then came Cyber Monday, creating a weekend-long orgy of discounts that renders the spirit of gratitude obsolete.

Retailers have weaponized FOMO (Fear of Missing Out), convincing us that a flat-screen TV at 60% off is worth skipping grandma’s stories or your niece’s giggles. And we buy into it—literally and figuratively—believing the lie that happiness can be swiped on a credit card.

The High Cost of “Deals”

But what’s the real cost of those deals? It’s not just the money spent; it’s the moments lost. The warmth of a heartfelt conversation exchanged for the sterile glow of a store aisle. The sacred tradition of breaking bread with family, replaced by the urgency of refreshing your online shopping cart.

And let’s not forget the human cost: retail workers pulled from their own Thanksgiving dinners to handle stampedes of shoppers desperate for a $20 waffle maker. Is this the legacy we want to leave behind?

How Did We Get Here?

Consumerism thrives on dissatisfaction. We are conditioned to believe we need more—more gadgets, more clothes, more stuff—to be happy. Thanksgiving, a day that was once a celebration of enough, has been hijacked by a culture that screams, “Not yet, not until you buy this.”

Corporations feed this beast, but let’s not forget: we are complicit. We choose to line up, to click “add to cart,” to prioritize material goods over human connection.

Can We Turn Back?

The question is not just how to change—it’s whether we even want to. Reversing this tide requires more than skipping a sale. It demands a collective redefinition of what we value. It calls for discomfort, for swimming upstream in a society that equates worth with what you own.

But it’s possible. It starts with small acts of rebellion: saying no to the sales, yes to the stories. Choosing connection over consumption. Embracing the radical idea that gratitude cannot be bought, only felt.

A New Thanksgiving Tradition

What if we reclaimed Thanksgiving? Not by banning sales or boycotting stores, but by consciously choosing presence over purchase. Start a new tradition: after dinner, instead of heading to the mall, sit around the table and share what truly matters—your time, your attention, your love.

This isn’t about shaming shoppers or vilifying deals. It’s about remembering what Thanksgiving stands for. It’s about refusing to let gratitude die under the weight of a shopping cart.

Before you hop on Amazon this Cyber Monday or race to Target, ask yourself: what are you really buying? Because the best deals of all aren’t found in stores—they’re found in the moments you can never put a price tag on.

The Choice is Yours

So, what will it be? Another gadget destined for the landfill, or a memory destined to last a lifetime? The love of Thanksgiving hasn’t disappeared—it’s just waiting for us to choose it again.

Let’s make this the year we stop chasing sales and start chasing the things that truly matter. Because the best things in life aren’t things at all.

Thanks for reading,

William Rochelle, but you can call me Bill

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